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Hi my friends! Today\u2019s podcast is about \u201cbadges\u201d \u2013 or external factors that somehow take on supreme meaning in your life and dictate your self-worth \u2013 to you. Whether it\u2019s a job, a number on the scale, a trophy or an expensive car \u2013 a badge can affect you so deeply that your whole world changes in the blink of an eye, almost like a hallucination. You might have experienced the results of wearing your badges when you\u2019re either on a personal high or low \u2013 and the difference between the two worlds is vast and disorienting, despite how small the factors are when put in perspective. For example \u2013 let\u2019s say you get an accolade at work: you feel like you\u2019re a star, you\u2019re so powerful and confident, you don\u2019t need anyone! You don\u2019t even need to call people back! You are that worth knowing, and everyone loves you. Maybe you more freely spend money because you\u2019re going places! You look better in the mirror, you feel young, successful, sexy\u2026 \u201cMan I impress everyone!\u201d The flip side of that coin is pretty dark: when you feel you have failed at something or lack something meaningful. For example, maybe you met someone you liked and texted them, but never got a text back. Suddenly the same you will feel ugly, fat, clumsy, talentless, incapable, and perceive that everyone around you sees you as an imbecile. Suddenly this hallucination changes your interpretation of everything anyone says to you: you question whether or not your friends like you, whether or not you are smart, and even how you see your reflection. From this state of mind, you see your acne as horrendous! \u201cHow does anyone like me, at all?\u201d And all of this happens in a split second: with one tiny bit of information, your view of yourself and your life - changes. That\u2019s how powerful these external badges can be, and that is not how they should be. Because that is very unfair to you, to be owned by something so dumb \u2013 and it\u2019s making you miss out on the real goods you might experience \u2013 you\u2019re focusing on the wrong thing if you want to really understand and appreciate who you are. Which is great, and a gift of a person to know. So if you\u2019re in a place where you feel bad about yourself based on an external definition \u2013 so much so that it has taken control of the opinion you hold about yourself\u2013 this is a podcast for you. Perhaps even listen to it twice, because if this is happening to you \u2013 this can be untrained just like any other bad habit. And you deserve for it to stop \u2013 cause you\u2019re awesome! For the blog version, check out TeaspoonOfHappy.com later this week, and as always, smile peeps!! xox Sarah-May B.\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices