This is an episode for anyone who feels like self-help and steps toward personal growth haven\u2019t worked for them and they likely won\u2019t. Maybe that\u2019s because you feel alienated by most of the content out there, or maybe that\u2019s because you feel like all the change you try to make does nothing: you just can\u2019t win. Or maybe you feel like you haven\u2019t made enough progress in your life in the areas that matter most to you: relationships, self-control, career success, happiness, confidence\u2026 etc. So you just feel stuck in a rut. Or maybe you just feel resentful toward all the people who seem to apply self-help easily to their lives. You might think\u2026.Self-help doesn\u2019t work for me. I never can change, I don\u2019t take the steps, I don\u2019t read the books. I am royally fucked in my issues \u2013 I don\u2019t see them going away anytime soon. Most people don\u2019t resonate with me or \u201cget\u201d my issues. This is also for you if you are in a place where nothing seems to work for you \u2013 if you want to believe all the touchy-feely optimistic stuff but in the past it hasn\u2019t worked for you. Maybe you are staring at your gratitude jar and saying \u201cWhy me? Why won\u2019t things work out for me?\u201d As with most of my episodes, there are three parts - the what the why and the how the tools. To read more of my work, see the products and services I offer, and to make a donation head to YayWithMe.com xo!\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices