Why Some Relationships Work & Others Don't - Lyn Smith & Bernadette Bruckner

Published: May 6, 2020, 11 p.m.

Lyn is with Bernadette Bruckner, Intuitive Expert in Holistic Health, Author and International Speaker. They are discussing the impact on relationships in these unprecedented times where, due to the 2020 global pandemic, people are following the social distancing and isolation rules and spending intense periods of time in lockdown together. This can be both a period to reflect and a time to understand more about yourself and your relationship. Bernadette and Lyn offer some great advice on how you can discover more deeply what is and isn't working and why in this episode. Listening in will help you to understand more about relationships, the importance of open communication and self-love.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Sometimes we need to get back to basics in our relationships – communicating and being open with each other. Recall the reasons you came together and the feelings you had back then. If the reasons are no longer valid, then the relationship may have ran it's course and you may need to consider whether to finish it so that you can both be free to find a person who will be a better match. Women tend to be more forgiving. It starts with forgiving and giving to yourself, fill up your own self-love cup first, so that you then have more than enough to give to others. It’s naturally in women to be the nuturer and carer for everyone else. This can be challenging when you are caring for others in difficult times. When individuals can’t express their negative emotions in words, situations can become very stressful and this may lead to a physical response. When people end up in abusive relationships it's because they often don’t understand the need to value themselves and have boundaries in place, we treat people how to treat us.  We must find the time to nuture and care about ourselves, consider what's acceptable and what's not and then say 'no' to what's not. BEST MOMENTS ‘We see what relationships are really made of when we are in very close proximity’ ‘People are redefining their relationships in these stressful times’ ‘It’s a time for reflection’   VALUABLE RESOURCES Hearts Entwined Podcast -Apple Podcasts (iTunes) -Spotify -Stitcher Hearts Entwined website ABOUT THE GUEST Bernadette Ana Bruckner is a creative all rounder, she has worked successfully in different fields in Austria and abroad. For over 30 years, she has appropriated an enormous amount of knowledge about what it takes to be an effective listener and communicator to build lasting healthy relationships. She is an international publisher and author of numerous books in different languages. Latest book – First Aid For The Soul: A First-Aid Kit for Psychological Self-Help www.amazon.com/First-Aid-Soul-FirstAidPsychological/dp/169445097X/ Website: www.bernadettebruckner.com Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/bernadettebruckner Facebook: www.facebook.com/healthinallmentoring/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/HeavenlyAna ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul-fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace. She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe. HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres. CONTACT METHOD lyn@hearts-entwined.com   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.