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If you want to understand more about the masculine and feminine energy states that influence our intimate relationships then this episode is for you. Lyn Smith ‘The Queen of HEARTS’ shares her expertise and insights for attracting / creating the relationship you want. KEY TAKEAWAYS How do you stop being too available, accommodating and attainable? When you are in a low-value feminine energy state, how do you change things? If you feel more invested in the relationship than he is then your low-value feminine energy state needs to be acknowledged and addressed. Wait before responding to any communication and then when you do make contact politely & playfully make sure he’s aware your life doesn’t revolve solely around him - you were ‘busy’ It is innate in healthy masculine men’s behaviour for them to want to do the pursuing and you will put him off and do him a dis-service if you don’t allow him the opportunity to chase you. Giving out mixed signals will intrigue him and inspire him to want to pursue you. Realising he is a high priority but not the highest priority will keep him focused both on you and on the pursuit, but don’t ever let him catch you too easily or be more invested in the relationship than him. Implement these powerful insights to show him you have high standards and boundaries and give him the opportunity to pursue you. It’s a huge mistake to believe that if he’s not exactly what you want you can change him. You need to positively work on yourself and in response to this, he will change. Help him to be the best high value masculine version of himself he can be through being the best high value feminine version of yourself. What Happens When You are in Your Masculine Energy State Most of the Time? This can be very unattractive to men. If you are in your masculine energy state it is more likely you will be using inappropriate control and engaging in the three C's - Criticising, Complaining and Comparing him to others. If a man hears criticism, complaints and comparisons on regular basis he will feel disrespected and want to distance himself. There are ways to communicate without making him feel like this. If you sound like you are nagging you are communicating through criticising and complaining this is usually because we want to be in control of the relationship which is a masculine energy trait  BEST MOMENTS ‘If you feel more invested this is a low-value feminine energy state’ ‘You want to inspire him to be able to step into his healthy masculine energy’ ‘Take responsibility for your own happiness’ ‘Never be more invested in the relationship than him’ VALUABLE RESOURCES Hearts Entwined Podcast -Apple Podcasts (iTunes) -Spotify -Stitcher ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace. She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe. HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres. CONTACT METHOD lyn@hearts-entwined.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.