What Type of Man? Betrayal, Abandonment, Post-Separation Abuse - with Loren Keeling

Published: Sept. 29, 2021, 11 p.m.

This week, Lyn talks to author Loren Keeling about, What Type Of Man? Betrayal, Abandonment, Post-Separation Abuse", her book about her journey as a survivor of emotional abuse, and the ways in which she wants to help others heal and move past the scars of emotional trauma. KEY TAKEAWAYS Emotional trauma feels as though many pieces of a relationship have been tossed into the air, with each piece falling down at random to create chaos at any one moment. Emotional abuse turns us into unrecognisable versions of ourselves. It turns us from the person we knew into something more raw, strange, lost and confused. We are often left not just in tatters emotionally, but also in terms of practicality when it comes to being able to function effectively. The aftershocks of abuse resonate through every area of our lives. BEST MOMENTS 'I realised quickly that the relationship wasn't what I thought it was' 'I'm not an angry person. It takes a lot to push me' VALUABLE RESOURCES Hearts Entwined Podcast Apple Podcasts (iTunes) Spotify Stitcher  ABOUT THE GUEST Loraine Marshall / Author pen name - Loren Keeling Loraine believes that in order to be successful you have to have a positive outlook on life and go after what you really want to achieve, even if you have no clue how you will get there. Loraine’s ambition is to create multiple streams of income from online businesses and help other women who find themselves in difficult financial circumstances to do the same. After experiencing all three of the three D's, Divorce, Death of a spouse and abrupt Discard, Loraine contributed a chapter in a collaborative book entitled "Faces of Mental Illness" which will be published in October 2021. Loraine has also recently started writing her first book "What Type Of Man?" about her experience of hidden emotional abuse in her relationship (under the pen name Loren Keeling). "What Type Of Man?" Betrayal, Abandonment and Post Separation Abuse Written to highlight the impact of domestic abuse and all the women who don’t survive. Who were not able to get through the trauma and gave up on themselves and their future. Suicide facts, 200 women taking their own lives and 10,000 attempting to do so due to domestic abuse every year in the UK. That's nearly 30 women attempting to complete suicide every single day. May 28, 2021 https://www.hestia.org/ Written for all the women who have been in or are still in a controlling or emotionally abusive relationship, who felt trapped and couldn't find a way to leave. To highlight the myth of being in a common-law marriage and the gap in the Laws when a relationship fails and results in conflict or post-separation abuse. Website: https://lifechangeplans.com/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lifechangeplans Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/lifechangeplan YouTube: https://bit.ly/lcpvideos My first book:- Publishing as Loren Keeling. "What Type Of Man?" Betrayal, Abandonment, Post Separation Abuse. Support My First Book Launch https://lifechangeplans.com/support-my-first-book-launch/ ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace. She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe. HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres. CONTACT METHOD lyn@hearts-entwined.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.