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‘How can you expect your partner to love you if you don’t love yourself’  In this episode, Lyn is in conversation with Nomsa Clara MNcube - CEO & Director of Hope Spring Eternal Introduction Agency (HSEIA)  They discuss the process of achieving deeper love and why loving yourself first is key to finding your soul mate and the love of your life. When you love yourself from within, you are ready to love another person, planting a love that can grow and flourish.  Nomsa shares her disciplines for love – a series of steps that anyone can embrace and learn from on their journey to attracting / creating deeper lasting true love.  KEY TAKEAWAYS  Deeper love is about discovering how to relate to yourself first and comes from within   When you love yourself from within you are then ready to love another person at a deeper level, your love and understanding of yourself will help you to plant love that can grow and flourish.   It’s a whole new level of awareness, we all make mistakes so it’s important to forgive yourself and learn from them.  The discipline of unconditional love  Unconditional love is love that doesn’t keep a record of right and wrong, you have planted love that comes from within and has a higher purpose connecting those in the relationship at a deeper level.  The discipline of courage  The courage to talk about the challenges in your relationship and life, the courage to ask for help. You have the freedom to express yourself  The discipline of humility  You put your lover first, you already love yourself and your character in the relationship is truly you.  The discipline of love in abundance  If you don’t understand how special you are and love yourself, you cannot give true (deep level) healthy love to someone else.  The discipline of desires of your heart  We are in the universe to love it and ourselves. Ask for what you want and need in the relationship. If you desire something then let your partner know.  The discipline of compassion  You must never compare or betray your lover. Your relationship belongs to you and problems shouldn’t be aired or shared in public. Love needs to be nurtured and protected and understanding this is key to the longevity of a healthy relationship.  BEST MOMENTS  ‘Life is a bitch and will hit you when you least expect it’  ‘We get challenges on the journey of life and we can always learn from them’  ‘Communicate your needs and pain and the relationship will work’  ‘Having been given new knowledge, you can now look at things differently and ask yourself more empowering questions’     VALUABLE RESOURCES Hearts Entwined Podcast -Apple Podcasts (iTunes) -Spotify -Stitcher    ABOUT THE GUEST  Nomsa Clara MNcube is the CEO & Director of Hope Spring eternal introduction agency (HSEIA).  As an ex-professional footballer, Musician, Certified Matchmaker and Psychologist with a lifelong passion for helping single individuals find love with the aim of building the perfect matchmaking agency, Nomsa drew on acumen's from top executives and tycoons, as well as the most brilliant minds in the matchmaking industry. The result is an elite matchmaking service – Hope Spring Eternal Introduction Agency, a hyper-local, high-end Matchmaking Service. While its hyper-local luxury service is bespoke – Hope Spring Eternal Introduction Agency has set the Gold Standard in upscale, selective, and personalised matchmaking.  She helps you find the perfect one.  As the CEO & Director of HSEIA, Nomsa combines her experience as an ex-professional footballer and certified matchmaker with a degree in Psychology; she delivers value and a motivational management style. More than that, as an extroverted and customer-focused leader, designed integrated corporate communication strategies blended with tactical execution to support. Nomsa works around the needs of the client.     Www.hseia.com  Email: info@hseia.com   +44 (0) 1491 842907     ABOUT THE HOST  Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert  Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul-fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace.    She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.    Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.    HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.    Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.     CONTACT METHOD  lyn@hearts-entwined.com  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.