Smart, Funny, Single

Published: Oct. 23, 2019, 11 p.m.

No one knows more about how to connect two souls together than Lyn’s special guest today, Lori Mendelsohn, a professional matchmaker who has successfully paired hundreds of singles. In today’s special show, Lori talks about the secrets of attraction, the ways in which people can attract their ideal partners, the lost art of the pick-up line, and some practical ways in which you can take that first step in talking to someone you like the look of. KEY TAKEAWAYS At 19 years old, Lori discovered that she had a talent for matching people. After some soul-searching, she realised that this was her calling, and took on the role professionally. She has matched hundreds of people, which has led to fifteen marriages (so far…) The physical traits of potential partners is usually what draws us in initially. But physical attributes fade after time, it's having a healthy mind-set and sharing common values that holds a relationship together long term. Lori is a vocal supporter of going after the person you’re interested in. She recommends taking the brave step of approaching a person you like the look of, and telling them so. As simple as that. Tell them they look interesting, and that you’d like to get to know them better.  Generally speaking, men are more attracted visually to a woman. Women are more interested in how a man makes them feel.  Women seem to have taken on more masculine energy in order to succeed in their careers and life. Lyn believes that women need to be more aware of th, as generally men are less attracted to masculine energy than a woman's natural feminine energy. BEST MOMENTS ‘We’re always looking for things outside our own scope’ ‘You need a spirit and a sense of healthy love and devotion to that other person’ ‘Who wouldn’t be flattered by a stranger coming up to you and telling you that look interesting?’ ’This is about making any sort of relationship a win-win’ ‘Let’s have a little comic humour here' VALUABLE RESOURCES Hearts Entwined Podcast -Apple Podcasts (iTunes) -Spotify -Stitcher   ABOUT THE GUEST Lori’s calling, her purpose, is to help people find true love. She has been matchmaking long before people used dating apps. How does she do this? She uses her intuition. She’s done it instinctively for so many years that she finally decided to follow her passion, as it clearly has been her calling in life. Because of this, she launched Smart Funny Single to bring happiness to as many people as she can. https://www.smartfunnysingle.com https://www.facebook.com/smartfunnysingle https://www.linkedin.com/company/smart-funny-single https://www.linkedin.com/in/lorimendelsohn   ABOUT THE HOST   Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert   Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace.   She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.   Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.   HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.   Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.   CONTACT METHOD lyn@hearts-entwined.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.