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In this episode, Lyn asks if being heartbroken can affect our chances of finding happiness again, she offers some useful insights around dealing with and moving past emotional pain. More than anything, The Queen of HEARTS needs you to understand that there is always hope for the heartbroken and that she is here to offer you practical advice so you will be inspired to have that hope for yourself KEY TAKEAWAYS Couples split and then reconcile all the time, sometimes we lose sight of that fact. When heartbreak strikes, it’s worth remembering that no journey is without its bumps in the road. Often times these challenges can lead to a greater understanding of our partners and so onto even stronger relationships with them in the future.  Breakups are all founded upon a once loving relationship. Both partners must have loved each other previously. Splitting from a partner gives us the chance to look ourselves, to recognise and get clear on what it is that we want, and from that there is always the possibility of being able to build a stronger, healthier more fulfilling relationship going forward. Three traits of male psychology and relationships Generally men are emotionally insecure - Men are often told from an early age not to show their emotions and that “big boys don’t cry”. So they learn to suppress their emotions in order to exude strength and confidence. For a man to express himself emotionally and vulnerably, he has to risk looking weak and unstable in front of other men. This lack of emotional communication can in turn lead to a breakdown in a relationship. So make it safe for your man to share without judgement. Men are natural protectors - even after a breakup, there will still be a part of a man that desperately wants to come to your rescue. On the one hand he will want to stand firm on his decision to end the relationship and on the other hand he will want to be your knight in shining armour. So the secret is to know how to tap into his masculine protective side, without being controlling or manipulative.  Men are lazy - Most men tend to find the thought of creating new emotional attachments with women quite draining. Remember that the love and connection you shared in your relationship was very real for both of you and can never be erased completely. At the moment it has merely been changed and transformed. BEST MOMENTS “In a study of one thousand reunited couples from around the world, around 6% of those who had got divorced went on to remarry their partners. 72% of unmarried couples that reunited, went on to create lasting relationships with each other” “We can’t grow and progress if we are too scared of making mistakes” “We need to learn from our past experiences, so that we can move forward and create something even better” “Men only hide their hearts from women because they are scared of their judgement” “There is a power in vulnerability” “Trust what’s being shared and have hope for the future” “Your stressings can be your blessings” VALUABLE RESOURCES Hearts Entwined Podcast -Apple Podcasts (iTunes) -Spotify -Stitcher   ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace. She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe. HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.   CONTACT METHOD  Email Lyn at lyn@hearts-entwined.com. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.