How To Date Successfully - Lyn Smith & Amanda Rose

Published: June 5, 2019, 11 p.m.

Lyn talks to Amanda Rose, the founder and CEO of the Dating Boutique and Prestige Connections, about her unique vision for dating and matchmaking - by focusing on people and not profiles. Amanda has channelled her own experiences of heartbreak and dating into creating a matchmaking service that encompasses connections, makeovers, courses, coaching and events that all combine to ensure that each client discovers their own personal path to love and lasting happiness. KEY TAKEAWAYS After dealing with heartbreak in her own personal life, Amanda came to realise that many online dating websites weren’t making the most of their clients, or really helping them to achieve their full potential. Amanda believes that unless we invest time in becoming the best version of ourselves first, it can lead to poor decisions and choices when trying to attract a new partner. Self-improvement leads to more confidence and positivity, which is always more attractive to others. Sometimes we are led to believe that having a partner will somehow make us whole when in reality we need to be happy enough on our own and to feel whole already. A partner is, as Lyn says, “just the icing on the cake”. Flirting can be different for everyone depending on their personality type. One should always be mindful of body language, which is a huge part of the flirting process. If you’re having a conversation, it can be good to turn towards them and have your arms open, the act of which signals that you are inviting them into your space. Sometimes a man can be put off from approaching a woman they find attractive, if that woman is part of a larger group. Amanda encourages the practice of dating yourself. Take yourself out for dinner, or go out for a glass of wine. You are far more likely to be approached in that situation. A hugely important factor in successful dating is to endeavour to enter into each new relationship with as little baggage as possible. By allowing ourselves to carry the baggage of past mistakes and experiences we diminish the chances of successfully forging lasting new connections. When you go out on a date, have the intention of focusing on what is great about the person instead of what is wrong.. BEST MOMENTS ‘I turned my heartbreak into my business’ ‘My heartbreak and divorce turned into the most amazing blessing’ ‘Like attracts like’ ‘It has a ripple effect, when you take care of yourself’ ‘Flirting is not always the traditional “batting your eyes” or giggling at what someone says!’ ‘Sometimes men are just as scared as you are. You have to cut them some slack’ ‘Be engaged. Be more interested in that person than you are in making yourself sound good’ VALUABLE RESOURCES Hearts Entwined Podcast -Apple Podcasts (iTunes) -Spotify -Stitcher Prestige Connections info@prestigeconnections.us Dating Boutique   ABOUT THE GUEST Amanda Rose, Founder and CEO of the Dating Boutique and Prestige Connections is no stranger to the dating industry.  Amanda is the founder and co-owner of The Dating Stylist, an online dating consultancy firm.  She was also the regional coordinator for an international matchmaking firm before starting her own matchmaking agency.  Amanda knew that matchmaking was a personalized experience and wanted to combine her experience in the dating industry to create a one-stop shop for finding love.  So she launched the Dating Boutique Inc. to create a unique positive dating experience and help people find true love.  The Dating Boutique is an industry leader in creating an all-round positive dating experience for singles. While Prestige Connections is a personalized luxury matchmaking experience that hand picks the best dates for singles. The Dating Boutique and Prestige Connections focuses on people not just profiles.  As a member you will get a professional matchmaking experience, online dating makeovers, unique and engaging singles events, industry leading courses, expert coaching and more. Amanda Rose has been featured or quoted on numerous media including Glamour.com, Redbook Magazine, Woman’s Day, 630 KHOW Denver Talk Radio, Forbes, Huffington Post, TD Jakes Show and many more. ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace.  She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts.  Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.  HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.  Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.   CONTACT METHOD lyn@hearts-entwined.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.