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Speaking to the opposite sex is very different in terms of the communication skills we use. Sometimes when we speak to our men, we can inadvertently begin to sound like we are complaining, criticising or comparing.  In this special episode, Lyn takes us through some practical tips to avoid these scenarios and by doing so, will help to improve the intimacy in our relationships and may even provide some subconscious tutoring to our men about the ways in which we prefer to be communicated with. KEY TAKEAWAYS Firstly, we must recognise the difference between high-value and low-value feminine energy states. Look for the traits to determine which energy state we are currently operating in. High-value feminine energy women express their opinions and ideas as 'wants' and 'desires'. Traditionally some parents teach us not to express our 'wants' openly, as it’s considered rude. This can lead to the impression that we sound like a spoiled child when asking for our 'wants'. The way to combat this feeling is to speak from our heart when expressing our 'wants'. Discovering our own high-value way of speaking from the heart allows us to sound flexible & undemanding and also enables our man to understand how to make us happy and win with us. To state your 'wants' and 'desires', it’s always best to be concise and direct. Don’t over-complicate or offer any advice on how your wants should be achieved. Also beware of using the word “we” when expressing your wants, as this can often be misunderstood and make a 'want' feel more like a demand. BEST MOMENTS “Insisting on knowing how a man is feeling, especially in the early stages of a relationship, is a clear trait of a low-value feminine energy state”  “Many of us grow up not knowing how to convey our 'wants' and 'desires' because it’s been disciplined out of us by our parents”  “When we speak our wants from our hearts, we are stating what we want without having any expectations” “Nothing weighs more heavily on a man than the weight of a woman’s expectations” "Happy wife, happy life”   VALUABLE RESOURCES Hearts Entwined Podcast -Apple Podcasts (iTunes) -Spotify -Stitcher ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace. She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe. HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.   CONTACT METHOD Email Lyn at lyn@hearts-entwined.com.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.