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It’s natural to believe that we need boundaries in our relationships. That’s the accepted notion, anyway. But as Lyn and her special guest, Marion Jorgensen, an Inner Wisdom Coach, discuss today, it’s entirely possible to reach a stage in your relationship where you don’t need any boundaries at all.  But where do we start and how do we get there? This week’s conversation tells you everything you need to know... KEY TAKEAWAYS Marion spent much of her past repeating the same cycle when it came to relationships. She was always far more concerned with making her partners feel good about themselves, usually to the detriment of her own happiness. Many of Marion’s issues in her love life stemmed from the feelings of abandonment and isolation that she experienced as a child. When we don't address issues like this they can have a long-lasting negative impact on our future relationships. Women who achieve success in the world of business, quite often struggle to achieve the same level of success in their personal lives. This is usually due to their previous conditioning and lack of awareness around the power of using their 'feminine' energy. People pleasers tend not to have any boundaries. They come from a place of desperation and are consistently anxious about losing friends and loved ones because of their own lack of self-worth, self-belief and self-confidence. Perfectionists are people who 'control' certain areas of their lives in order to feel safe. They like things to happen in a certain way, and are determined to 'control' situations, people and their experiences whenever possible. With self-understanding comes the realisation that boundaries must be set. This comes from knowing that we have the power to take control of minds and our lives. BEST MOMENTS ‘I didn’t know how to receive, or demand, any of that (emotional Investment) back’ ‘I started concentrating on areas of my life that I wanted to grow and nurture’ ’Some of those behaviours we’ve picked up are fantastic. Some of them are not’ ‘You are free to make choices that are good for you’ ‘I learned how to be healthily vulnerable in my relationship, and to be okay with that'   VALUABLE RESOURCES Hearts Entwined Podcast -Apple Podcasts (iTunes) -Spotify -Stitcher   ABOUT THE GUEST Marion Jorgensen has been a psychotherapist and hypnotherapist for 20 years and during this time she has been able to fulfil her passion of working with people across the world who struggle with anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship issues amongst other things. Marion’s Inner Wisdom Coach web site and Inner Wisdom Community Facebook Group are spaces where she is able to talk about her favourite subject, authenticity and inner Wisdom. Marion believes that helping people discover their authentic self, who they really are, enables them to navigate their life more easily.  She points them towards their inner guidance system, their inner Wisdom and sees this as the best way that she can serve the world. Marion is the host of the Armchair Talks Podcast.  These conversations are about her guests’ life experiences, which have at the heart of them authenticity and inner Wisdom. www.theinnerwisdomcoach.com www.facebook.com/groups/721923908328135/ www.linkedin.com/in/marion-jorgensen/ Armchair Talks Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/7KenkT8XY6TKqjtaCE2tMU Email: marion@theinnerwisdomcoach.com   ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace. She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe. HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres.   CONTACT METHOD lyn@hearts-entwined.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.