Are You Ever Fearful, Desperate or Needy? - with Lyn Smith

Published: Jan. 31, 2019, midnight

Lyn looks closely at the low-value feminine energy state. She identifies the behaviours associated with this energy and explains how men respond to them. Lyn explores the changes we can make to ensure that we have high self-esteem & self-worth to create a high-value feminine energy state to naturally inspire our male partners to be in their best healthy masculine energy state.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Women mainly live in 3 different energy states. The low-value feminine energy state is one of these energy states. What is a Low-Value Feminine Energy State? It’s about not taking care of your own well-being. If you can identify with being too attainable, too available and too accommodating then you are living in a low-value feminine energy state. If your man is your total and complete focus and you've let go of other people and activities in your life you are living in a low-value feminine energy state. Men like to be appreciated and want to make you happy but don’t want to be 'solely' responsible for your happiness. Your value and self-worth should always come from you.   Low-value feminine energy behaviours include; Investing more time in your relationship than him Pointing out your own faults Adapting your schedule to align with his Trying to push the relationship too far too soon How Can You Change Your Behaviours? If you become consciously aware of your behaviours and the need to change them then you have reached the point of being able to transform your relationship status. Recognise your strengths and positive traits. Once you have the awareness and understand the need to work on your self-love, value yourself and set boundaries. Men rise to the challenge – they will think ‘this woman she knows her worth’ and will find this very desirable. A healthy masculine man wants you to have high value around who you are, it makes you very attractive. Give him the gift of time and space to work at winning you over. Its natural for healthy masculine men to do the pursuing & chasing (intermixed occasionally with some flirty playful encouragement from you). BEST MOMENTS ‘If you are always available then you are signalling to your man that you are easy and have no value or worth of your own’ ‘When you identify these behaviours, you can change them’ ‘The woman who recognises that in the past she hasn’t valued herself or had any self-worth, is on a path to positive change and transformation’ ‘Your worth and validation should always come from you’ ‘Awareness is the key to the solution’ ‘Do any of these behaviours relate to you?  ‘Now there is this new confident woman who knows who she is and what she wants” VALUABLE RESOURCES Hearts Entwined Podcast -Apple Podcasts (iTunes) -Spotify -Stitcher ABOUT THE HOST Lyn Smith – (The Queen of HEARTS) – Love, Dating & Relationship Expert Lyn’s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace. She has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world’s leading industry experts. Understanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship – that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe. HEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions. Lyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale – to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking – through the setting up of worldwide – ‘you can heal your life’ centres. CONTACT METHOD lyn@hearts-entwined.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.