Let's acknowledge some assumptions about older age that have been programmed into us.\nPeople of an older age naturally feel a need to settle down.\xa0\xa0\nThey get comfortable in their ways.\xa0 They're afraid to take risks.\xa0 They're happy the way things are.\xa0 They're inflexible.\nThey don't take care of themselves and they "let themselves go", because they stop caring.\nAll older men want to date much younger women.\nThey give zero fucks.\nOkay, the last one is 100% true.\xa0 But the rest aren't always.\xa0 Why do we have certain preconceptions of certain age groups?\xa0 Who put them there?\xa0 Why do we let ourselves define people by age anyway?\xa0 My guest Kim, who is 59 and struggles with meeting men her age who match her at her enthusiasm for living, chats with me about when we decided what age meant what exactly, and what would happen if we all did away with that filter... who might you fall in love with if age wasn't an issue?\nVOP Ron, also 59, shares his side of the story on why men his age act a certain way and broadens to scope to consider culture and location.\xa0 Who would you fall in love with if you could unprogram yourself?\nJoin us for this interesting convo and feel free to share your thoughts here or over on instagram @hashtagsinglepod!!