Ever been told you're intimidating? \xa0 Ever been told you're too much?\xa0 Ever been told you're overwhelming, too educated, a know-it-all, too successful, aggressive or assertive? \xa0\nWhat about objectified?\xa0 For being a certain size, a certain shape, a certain weight,\xa0 a certain race?\xa0 How about just for being a f***king woman!???\nThis month we're joined by Leah V., a writer, model, body-positive activist and self-proclaimed "unashamed fat, black, Muslim" who is the absolute epitome of living a queenly badass existence.\xa0 Leah V. spills the deets on her love life and ten year marriage to a Muslim man who eventually came to reject the idea of marriage as a whole and land in a place of freedom and vocal empowerment.\xa0 We hash out what exactly is up with crappy opening lines (one more "Hey, how are you?" and we'll both vomit) and Darian joins us as the VOP to weigh in on why men feel the need to have status on a date. \xa0\n\xa0\nWe hope you find this episode as juicy and empowering as ever, and that you fall in absolute love with the charming Leah V!\xa0 Buy her new book here!