Alex is a nationally recognized award-winning social worker and documentary film producer, most recently of Emergence: Out of the Shadows. The film documents the tough journeys of 3 queer brown people as they come out with their sexuality within their conservative South Asian families.
In this interview, Alex talks about:
- Feeling internalized homophobia in high school and feeling suicidal as a result
- His advice to other South Asians on coming out to family and friends
- How he got into making documentaries and his advice for others on the process
Emergence out of the Shadows Website: https://emergencefilm.net/social-media-images/
Alex's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexsangha/
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Approximate Time Stamps:
0:00 Intro
0:48 Childhood
2:21 First Feelings of Being Gay, Internalized homophobia, suicidal thoughts
5:08 Advice to someone feeling Internalized homophobia
6:02 When did things get better for you?
8:17 Did joining LGBTQ+ groups help you?
10:00 How is being brown affected your coming out process?
15:32 Arranged marriage aspect
19:54 When did you start telling friends and family?
21:42 How did you grapple with your father initially not being supportive?
24:30 Advice on seeing your parents getting divorced
30:38 A friend’s suicide due to homophobia
34:53 Advice to someone feeling suicidal for being gay?
41:14 What’s it like to be a social worker?
44:30 Starting non-profit SHER as a LQGBTQ community support group
46:30 How did you get into making documentaries?
49:46 Advice to someone wanting to start a documentary
51:24 Coming up with the idea of the film Emergence: Out of the Shadows
52:24 Working with your mom in the documentary
53:27 Alex’s belief in God
58:10 Managing doing multiple things
1:01:20 Supporting Alex