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b'Want to explore new moves with your partner, but don\'t know how to ask? How can Pursuers approach and encourage their Withdrawer partner to open their mind to new things?\\n Pursuers can get discouraged themselves after being rejected time and time again; They assume it is a hopeless attempt and stop trying, eventually resulting in pain, distance, and resentment.\\n When we want variety or want to suggest something new to our partner, energy and enthusiasm can carry the day. When there is reluctance, a Pursuer needs to resist the wish to fall back and at least bring their heart and passion.\\n On the flip side, the partner receiving the request can really support their partner\\u2019s vulnerability at asking, with encouragement and responsiveness. \\xa0Unfortunately, when a sexual Withdrawer is the suggester, it can feel like just a drop in the bucket compared to all that has been longed for.\\xa0 Instead of receiving the new suggestion with grace and gratitude, it often becomes an opportunity for the sexual Pursuer to complain and feel disappointed.\\n In order for Withdrawers to feel safe enough to initiate or try new things, Pursuers must acknowledge their effort and vulnerability \\u2013 no matter how "small."\\xa0\\n Pursuers \\u2013 in order to open a conversation about sexual variety, ask your partner what THEY want and need, and tell them what YOU want and need. With your heart and deep vulnerability.\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices'