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b'We always talk about sexual Pursuers and Withdrawers\\u2014those who seek sex and those who withdraw from it.\\n Because sexual Pursuers are usually the sexual initiator, they are often facing rejection. Over time they become anxious about initiating. For Pursuers, rejection goes beyond being told \\u201cno\\u201d when they make a sexual advance. Rejection also happens when they perceive or assume rejection. It may seem unfair but it feels true to the sexual Pursuer.\\n Pursuers are prone to stories from others, past experience, and ideas they tell themselves about what they will happen if they ask for sex. The feelings created by potentially false assumptions are as real as the sting of actual rejection and can leave a pit in their stomach.\\n Couples (Withdrawers and Pursuers) usually have opposite protective strategies which can create psychological, sexual tension and frustration from the negative cycle.\\n How can Withdrawers seek to understand and help their frustrated sexual Pursuer? We\\u2019re breaking down 5 ways Withdrawers can protect their partner from rejection!\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices'