When Your Ex-Husband Tries to Use Your Kids to Control You After the Divorce

Published: Sept. 13, 2022, 5:30 p.m.

b"\\u201cI feel like a massive failure as a Christian and a mom. Like a puppet\\u2014and he\\u2019s pulling the strings.\\u201d\\n \\nToo many women finally muster up the courage to leave their abusive husbands and face an even more painful betrayal: Their exes turn their own children against them. Lying, manipulating, bribing, even using threats in order to get the kids on their side. \\n \\nIt\\u2019s sickening. And it can feel like there\\u2019s no hope, no justice, and no way forward. \\n \\nIf this is you\\u2014wherever you are, whatever you\\u2019re doing, no matter how bad things are\\u2014I need you to stop and listen to me.\\n \\nBecause I\\u2019ve seen terrible cases of parental alienation turn around. I\\u2019ve lived it. \\n \\nNo matter what happens: Your future depends on cutting the strings of your puppeteer. \\n\\nIn this episode:\\n\\n- How to start making the most of your rights as a parent (without guilt or fear)\\n- Why a lack of focus is often the biggest problem (it\\u2019s the perfect setup for your ex to succeed at his crappy mind games)\\n- How to turn the volume of his voice down (and come to trust your own)\\n- The story of 1-hour a week visitation making all the difference in a restored relationship between a mom and her son\\n- The danger of believing your ex-husband (remember the term \\u201cself-fulfilling prophecy\\u201d?)\\n- Why your ex acts like a quack (because he\\u2019s a duck, not a cat)\\n- A tale as old as time: The ex who is suddenly the sweetest person in the world (grab your BS-vision goggles)\\n\\nListen or download the transcript at flyingfreenow.com/188\\n\\nFREE: I'll send you the first chapter of my book, Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage. Just hop on my mailing list at flyingfreesisterhood.com/free-download. (I will NEVER spam you or sell your information.)\\n\\nDesperate for real help and safe people who understand what you're going through? Find out about my online education and support program for women of faith at joinflyingfree.com\\n\\nAnd, if you are an already divorced Christian woman who wants to take back her life and get healthy, have amazing relationships, build a business or career, or even find a good man - check out joinflyinghigher.com"