Reframing Nasty Things People Say to Victims [270]

Published: April 9, 2024, 5:30 p.m.

\u201cWhy do you keep bringing up the past?\u201d


\u201cYou can't have boundaries with me. You're my wife.\u201d

\u201cYou're too sensitive.\u201d


\u201cI said I was sorry. You need to accept that. Let's choose to have a good day now.\u201d


\u201cYou think you're so perfect.\u201d


Do these phrases sound familiar? They certainly sound familiar to me. I want to show you some ways you can combat these words your abuser throws at you, even if you\u2019re just combating them in your own mind. You don\u2019t even have to say anything out loud (because we all know what happens when we try to reason with an abuser/fool). You can just say these phrases I\u2019m going to teach you in your head, and that will be enough to give you the empowerment and strength you need!\xa0


But first, let\u2019s check out a negative review I recently received *gasp* and look to Matthew 23 to help us figure out if this reviewer is on the right track\u2026or not.\xa0


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