How You and Your Faith Community Got Hoodwinked by an Abuser

Published: June 28, 2022, 5:30 p.m.

b"Do you wonder how he did it?\\n\\nHow your abuser tricked you and blindfolded your church? How he just keeps coming out on top, despite all the evidence pointing to what a sick, twisted, evil person he is?\\n\\nAbuse doesn\\u2019t happen in a vacuum. It always involves the community. In this case: the church.\\n\\nWade Mullen staked his Ph.D. on the study of the hidden tactics of abuse, especially spiritual abuse within religious communities. \\n\\nWhat he found were patterns of behavior. The slow and steady set-up for abuse to become a system, a system to become a theology, and a theology to become god.\\n\\nImagine with me: A relationship within a community where all the red flags (manipulation, lying, criticism) are called green flags and all the green flags (truth-telling, boundaries, self-respect) are called red flags. \\n\\nIt\\u2019s the heist of the century. And it\\u2019s working all too well.\\n\\nDon\\u2019t miss out on this killer explanation: \\n\\n- Why abuse always involves theft\\n- Why abuse always involves murder\\n- Why emotional abuse is just as bad or worse than other types of abuse\\n- The types of evil language abusers always use\\n- The four types of nice things abusers do (and why \\u201ckindness\\u201d from an abuser is always a WARNING SIGN)\\n- The reason laughter is a RED FLAG in an abusive relationship\\n- 6 things women need when they\\u2019re coming out of emotional and spiritual abuse (and a great place to get ALL of them)\\n\\nListen or download the transcript at flyingfreenow.com/177\\n\\nFREE: I'll send you the first chapter of my book, Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage. Just hop on my mailing list at flyingfreesisterhood.com/free-download. (I will NEVER spam you or sell your information.)\\n\\nDesperate for real help and safe people who understand what you're going through? Find out about my online education and support program for women of faith at joinflyingfree.com\\n\\nAnd, if you are an already divorced Christian woman who wants to take back her life and get healthy, have amazing relationships, build a business or career, or even find a good man - check out joinflyinghigher.com"