How Not to Be an Ass: Interview with Author Andrew Bauman

Published: March 29, 2022, 5:30 p.m.

b"\\u201cHow Not to Be a Meanie\\u201d doesn\\u2019t hit the same, does it?\\n\\n\\u201cHow Not to Act Out Patriarchal Theology, AKA \\u2018A Chocolate-Covered Turd\\u2019\\u201d is probably too long.\\n\\nAnd Andrew Bauman wants to get the attention of men who have bought into domination and called it love, and control and called it protection. The men who feel entitled to women\\u2019s bodies and minds and service, all in the name of God. Asses. \\n\\nHow does he tackle the problem? One donkey-sized piece at a time. \\n\\nThis jam-packed episode includes:\\n\\n- The unavoidable word \\u201cass\\u201d\\n- What to do if you\\u2019re told your husband\\u2019s porn addiction is your fault or no big deal (the aud-ass-ity!)\\n- Why real change isn\\u2019t a made bed and an open Bible (it\\u2019s actually sooooo boring)\\n- 5 quick, clear, key differences between a safe man and a giant ass\\n- How to love the duck you have instead of trying to make it into a cat (we aren\\u2019t quacks, we swear)\\n- What Andrew thinks of marriage intensives/counseling for emotionally abusive men (a hard p-ass)\\n- Why ass-king the question, \\u201cDoes your husband know how to use a phone?\\u201d is more about you than him (and how it will change your ass-essment of your marriage)\\n\\nListen or download the transcript at flyingfreenow.com/164\\n\\nFREE: I'll send you the first chapter of my book, Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage. Just hop on my mailing list at flyingfreesisterhood.com/free-download. (I will NEVER spam you or sell your information.)\\n\\nDesperate for real help and safe people who understand what you're going through? Find out about my online education and support program for women of faith at joinflyingfree.com\\n\\nAnd, if you are an already divorced Christian woman who wants to take back her life and get healthy, have amazing relationships, build a business or career, or even find a good man - check out joinflyinghigher.com"