How Do I Know What Is Real or True When My Husband Gaslights Me?

Published: April 5, 2022, 5:30 p.m.

b"Is the last thing you googled, \\u201cAm I crazy?\\u201d or \\u201cWhy does my husband hate me?\\u201d or the literal title of this episode? \\n\\nBleh. Living in such horrible, constant confusion can make us obsessive. Not crazy obsessive. The \\u201cdesperate for answers\\u201d kind. The \\u201cI\\u2019m living in purgatory and I hate it!\\u201d kind. The \\u201cIs it me even though I\\u2019m trying so hard?\\u201d kind. \\n\\nIf you\\u2019re looking for a fixed point of reference\\u2014a way to know what\\u2019s real and true, then you\\u2019ve stumbled across something better than 6.84 million Google results. Because I\\u2019m going to answer your question in incredible detail. \\n\\nIn this episode, I lay all the cards on the table:\\n\\n- The messages this crazymaking makes in our brains (which are much more dangerous than the crazymaking and abuse)\\n- Why your husband\\u2019s behavior is not actually creating the problems (WHAT?!? Hear me out.)\\n- The ONE THING you keep giving your husband that you need to give yourself instead\\n- Why trusting a man who lies means you can\\u2019t trust someone more important (it\\u2019s a nasty cycle)\\n- Resources to help you get off this hamster wheel of horror\\u2026for keeps\\n\\nListen or download the transcript at flyingfreenow.com/165\\n\\nFREE: I'll send you the first chapter of my book, Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage. Just hop on my mailing list at flyingfreesisterhood.com/free-download. (I will NEVER spam you or sell your information.)\\n\\nDesperate for real help and safe people who understand what you're going through? Find out about my online education and support program for women of faith at joinflyingfree.com\\n\\nAnd, if you are an already divorced Christian woman who wants to take back her life and get healthy, have amazing relationships, build a business or career, or even find a good man - check out joinflyinghigher.com"