Help! My Husband Twists Words to Confuse Me, and I Feel Guilty and Full of Shame

Published: Jan. 17, 2023, 5:30 p.m.

b"Have you ever wondered what Genesis 3:16 really means? Or perhaps your abuser is accusing you of forcing him into a transactional relationship simply because you\\u2019ve set down some boundaries he doesn\\u2019t like? How do we deal with these tough questions? In this episode, Natalie answers these questions by getting into the nitty gritty of Genesis 3:16, why we can trust ourselves, how not to get hooked in our abuser\\u2019s little game, and more. Let\\u2019s get out of the guilt and shame loop together. \\n\\nKey Points From This Episode:\\n\\n- Our first listener question: \\u201cWhat does Genesis 3:16 really mean?\\u201d (4:01)\\n- The revelation that the Bible is a starter log of a fire, but the actual fire is\\u2026 listen and find out!\\n- The Holy Spirit lives inside of YOU. He gives YOU wisdom too!\\n- Why men probably don\\u2019t want to let go of their power and control in the world just yet. \\n- Listener question number two: \\u201cDoes setting a boundary now mean we have a transactional relationship?\\u201d (20:58)\\n- How to not get hooked back into the crazy game abusers like to play (and what that game is).\\n- What do we do with comments that are designed to trigger our guilt and shame?\\n- Remember, just because your abuser says that you're mean doesn't actually mean you're mean. (But what DOES it mean?)\\n\\nListen or download the transcript at flyingfreenow.com/206\\n\\nFREE: I'll send you the first chapter of my book, Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage. Just hop on my mailing list at flyingfreesisterhood.com/free-download. (I will NEVER spam you or sell your information.)\\n\\nDesperate for real help and safe people who understand what you're going through? Find out about my online education and support program for women of faith at joinflyingfree.com\\n\\nAnd, if you are an already divorced Christian woman who wants to take back her life and get healthy, have amazing relationships, build a business or career, or even find a good man - check out joinflyinghigher.com"