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b'"He wants to treat me better. He just doesn\\u2019t know how."\\n\\n"He says he\\u2019s sorry. He really hates how he acts."\\n\\n"He\\u2019s struggling. He can\\u2019t help it." \\n\\nDo you have these thoughts about your husband?\\n\\nHave these thoughts led to anything good? More peace? Change (on his part)? Hope that lasts? A better marriage? A never-ending bucket of fried chicken?\\n\\nDidn\\u2019t think so. \\n\\nI have some other thoughts to offer. You can take them or leave them. They might seem cynical and hopeless on the surface. But I believe they\\u2019re the means to all the things you\\u2019re hoping for\\u2026except one. \\n\\nThis episode comes with not one but two guarantees: \\n\\nAdults have 100% control over their behavior. And you have a 0% chance of making someone grow or change when they don\\u2019t want to. \\n\\nThe episode highlight reel:\\n\\n- Why acknowledging wrongdoing means nothing (if the wrongdoer is abusive)\\n- Why his apologies mean squat (if the behavior continues)\\n- Why WHAT he\\u2019s doing matters and WHY he\\u2019s doing it means next to nothing\\n- Why saying he wants to grow means bupkes (if he doesn\\u2019t)\\n- Why an abuser giving \\u201cGod\\u2019s\\u201d advice has zero authority\\n- Why your opinion on all of this matters and everybody\\u2019s else\\u2019s means zip\\n\\nListen or download the transcript at flyingfreenow.com/169\\n\\nFREE: I\'ll send you the first chapter of my book, Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage. Just hop on my mailing list at flyingfreesisterhood.com/free-download. (I will NEVER spam you or sell your information.)\\n\\nDesperate for real help and safe people who understand what you\'re going through? Find out about my online education and support program for women of faith at joinflyingfree.com\\n\\nAnd, if you are an already divorced Christian woman who wants to take back her life and get healthy, have amazing relationships, build a business or career, or even find a good man - check out joinflyinghigher.com'