Sam works in show business in L.A. and Nashville. \xa0He and Cass were friends in high school. \xa0He came out gay at age 30 and was recently diagnosed with HIV. \xa0He walked out on church and didn't get struck with lightening on the way out. \xa0After a year and half break-up with "god," he found passage in the Kabbalah. \xa0He's funny and feisty and doesn't\xa0take any sh*t from Cass. \xa0