Podcasts Technology ERIC KIM Prioritize Your Own Needs, Desires, and Wants Over Others

Prioritize Your Own Needs, Desires, and Wants Over Others

Published: Feb. 25, 2020, 10:59 p.m.

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Mp3 download: https://erickimphotography.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Prioritize-Your-Own-Needs-Desires-and-Wants-Over-Others.mp3

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My thought:

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To maximize your impact and change in the world, embrace MAXIMUM SELFISHNESS, and barbell \'maximum altruism\' on the other end.

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Why prioritize yourself?

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My thought is this:

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We want to avoid pettiness and resentment in life.
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Often when we spend our entire lives devoting it to others (instead of focusing on our own self-development), we start to build hidden resentment towards others.

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Why not posit yourself as an end into yourself?

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Why are we not allowed to posit ourselves as an end unto ourselves?

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Well -- Christian/Utilitarian morality says:

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Thou shalt become a useful instrument for the masses and others.
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And also in almost all cultures in the world, the notion of being \'selfish\' is synonymous with \'evil\'.

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Why is this? Well-- in the past (when there was a limited pie, zero-sum society), any benefit you gave yourself was a HIDDEN DOWNSIDE to others. For example if I have a pizza with 12 slices and I eat 6 slices, that means 6 fewer slices for my community or family. But in today\'s world with infinite technology and effectively infinite/free food, these old-school notions of \'selfish\' being \'evil\' is not a good one.

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Learn more: https://erickimphotography.com/blog/2020/02/25/prioritize-your-own-needs-desires-and-wants-over-others/

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