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\nMy thought:
\nTo maximize your impact and change in the world, embrace MAXIMUM SELFISHNESS, and barbell 'maximum altruism' on the other end.
\nWhy prioritize yourself?
\nMy thought is this:
\nWe want to avoid pettiness and resentment in life.\n
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Often when we spend our entire lives devoting it to others (instead of focusing on our own self-development), we start to build hidden resentment towards others.
\nWhy not posit yourself as an end into yourself?\nWhy are we not allowed to posit ourselves as an end unto ourselves?
\nWell -- Christian/Utilitarian morality says:
\nThou shalt become a useful instrument for the masses and others.\n
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And also in almost all cultures in the world, the notion of being 'selfish' is synonymous with 'evil'.
\nWhy is this? Well-- in the past (when there was a limited pie, zero-sum society), any benefit you gave yourself was a HIDDEN DOWNSIDE to others. For example if I have a pizza with 12 slices and I eat 6 slices, that means 6 fewer slices for my community or family. But in today's world with infinite technology and effectively infinite/free food, these old-school notions of 'selfish' being 'evil' is not a good one.
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