268: Uncover the Beliefs Your Current Tribe Is Reinforcing

Published: Sept. 6, 2018, 8 a.m.

b'Just a head\\u2019s up that today\\u2019s topic may be a touch overwhelming for some, but I don\\u2019t want anyone to get too worried, because when it comes to shifting and changing a person\\u2019s beliefs \\u2013 it\\u2019s actually never-ending.\\n \\xa0\\n I\\u2019ve discovered recently just how important it is to take inventory of one\\u2019s tribe, aka the people who we\\u2019re spending the most time with. Keep in mind that this can be actual people, television, podcasts etc. I like to also call them reinforcers.\\n \\xa0\\n I want you to do a quick exercise and write down the following:\\n \\xa0\\n List five people who you\\u2019re around the most.\\n What is the main belief, habit or limiting belief or thing that they are reinforcing in your life?\\n \\xa0\\n When completed, review and determine if these habits and beliefs are reflecting back at you. Are they holding you back? Don\\u2019t panic if it\\u2019s not what you thought. I\\u2019m certainly not here to tell you who to hang out with and I certainly won\\u2019t tell you to ditch friends who aren\\u2019t \\u201cpositive\\u201d enough. But I am telling you that you may want to load the other portions of your \\u201cplate\\u201d with more positive or up-leveling people. Crowd out your plate in a positive direction.\\n \\xa0\\n Maybe that means joining a new group or mastermind? Maybe it\\u2019s adding more podcasts, books or self-development events to your life. Whatever it is, just make sure to, \\u201cset up a life and tribe that reflects where you\\u2019re going and not where you\\u2019re at.\\u201d\\n \\xa0\\n --\\n In This Episode Lori talks about:\\n \\xa0\\n Taking a tribe inventory\\n Shifting and changing belief systems\\n Why we need more positive reinforcers in our lives\\n \\xa0\\n \\xa0\\n Resources:\\n \\xa0\\n Aligned Registration Opens soon. Sign up to be the first to know when and to receive a free training at BecomeAligned.com\\n \\xa0\\n Join Lori, Oprah Magazine\\u2019s staff and other thought leaders on the Oprah Magazine Cruise to the Bahamas | Oct. 28-Nov. 4!\\n \\xa0\\n Go here for details: https://www.hollandamerica.com/en_US/cruise-ships/ms-nieuw-statendam/oprah-caribbean-adventure-of-your-life.html\\n \\xa0\\n Thrive Event | Sept. 14-16, 2018, Las Vegas\\n AttendThrive.com\\n Go to ATribeCalledBliss.com to find out the latest on Lori\\u2019s book tour and join the world\\u2019s biggest tribe book club\\n \\xa0\\n A Tribe Called Bliss by Lori Harder\\n Now available at loriharder.com/amazon or ATribeCalledBliss.com\\n \\xa0\\n Join me on the A Tribe Called Bliss Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1571018952966750/\\n \\xa0\\n Check out my website at loriharder.com. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook.'