196: Find The Courage To Live The Life You Were Meant For

Published: Dec. 28, 2017, 9 a.m.

b'Can you believe it? This is my last official quickie of 2017! What a ride 2017 was. And before I get into things here, and no matter what happened, I want you to acknowledge everything that happened \\u2013 good and bad \\u2013 and how it\\u2019s helped you learn.\\n \\xa0\\n Try to reframe the word failure, because it\\u2019s not always about winning or failing, it\\u2019s about learning or\\u2026 learning. Yes! Can you we agree to take the word failure out of our vocabulary? As Nelson Mandela once said, \\u201cI don\\u2019t lose. I either win or learn.\\u201d\\n \\xa0\\n We need the contrast to help guide us where to go next. Personally, there we several things that I hoped to accomplish or have a different outcome within 2017, but it just made me realize that those dips and darkness were needed to amplify all the good things.\\n \\xa0\\n \\u201cThe failures just tell you what to do next.\\u201d\\n \\xa0\\n And it was often the opposite of what I thought. Whether you lost a business, a friendship or a relationship, you learned. We are always learning and all the things we learn only help us live in our purpose. But here\\u2019s the thing, in order to realize all this, we need to find the courage to go against the grain. We need to say no. We need to do things that challenge what others say is the right thing to do.\\n \\xa0\\n You don\\u2019t need new goals; you just need to have the courage to say no to things that aren\\u2019t elevating your life. And trust me, it\\u2019s not going to be easy, but when you really dig deep and think outside the box, you can say truthfully that you lived a life that fully made you expand into the human you were meant to be.\\n \\xa0\\n \\u201cStep into your courage and into your truth.\\u201d\\n \\xa0\\n Wishing you abundance and bravery in 2018 \\u2013 I cannot wait to see you rock your life!\\n \\xa0\\n --\\n In This Episode You Will Learn:\\n \\xa0\\n Why failures are part of our success\\n How deeper courage won\\u2019t show up until you call upon it\\n Why you don\\u2019t necessarily need new goals to live in your highest purpose\\n \\xa0\\n Resources: \\xa0\\n 2018 For the Love of Money Mastermind\\n http://fortheloveofmoney.com/mastermind\\n \\xa0\\n Check out my website at loriharder.com. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook.'