This week Nathalie Antonia is back and we’re unravelling Rebecca’s tale of a surprise dick video turned teachable moment. We find ourselves trying to understand all the ways we unconsciously default to performing emotional labor- attempting to manage or assuage the emotional experiences of others (often men)— and how that reflects society’s expectations, our own fears, and how we respond when threatened. Plus, we learn Nathalie’s mantra for social media mental health!