Podcasts Health Busting Addiction and Its Myths Mini Series 2 - When is the right time?

Mini Series 2 - When is the right time?

Published: May 5, 2023, 8 a.m.

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In this podcast, we ask the question... When is the right time to encourage the addict to seek help?

It seems that there is never a good time for those who love an addict or alcoholic (who is clearly out of control) to intervene, as the addict will always find a way to evade the truth.

  1. One of his favourite dodges is to verbally attack the responsible family member - usually a mum - and have her defend her position while the addict makes his getaway.
  2. The alcoholic/addict thinks differently than you and me. You may believe that his drug abuse is the problem, and it truly is, but he believes otherwise. He believes you are the problem because you are in the way of his getting high.
  3. We believe that your loved one should be approached not when he is high or drunk, but when he is reasonably sober and at a low ebb. He should be approached gently and asked whether this is a good time to get help.
    There is also the option of a more formal intervention. A great guide to reference is the book on an intervention called Love First by Jeff and Debra Jay.
  4. But, be ready to have him go to a treatment centre or see a counsellor who may be standing by. If the treatment centre requires a flight, make sure his passport is in order and flight and treatment arrangements are made in advance.

The important thing to remember is that addiction is a disorder that you did not cause, and that there is always hope.

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