God's Relationship Detox - What God Will Do in the Month's Following a Narcissistic Relationship

Published: Nov. 9, 2023, 10 a.m.

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\\xa0After years of dealing with a toxic person, you\\u2019re finally free--free from the mental and emotional bondage of trying to live up to their narcissistic expectations.\\xa0

\\xa0Yet you may be wondering why you don\\u2019t feel as blissful as you thought you would.\\xa0

\\xa0That\\u2019s why today, I want to walk you through the three steps that God will bring you through after a narcissistic relationship. It doesn\\u2019t matter if it was a parent, partner, pastor, or friend, these three detox steps will help you recognize when God is at work in your life or when the enemy is still looking to keep you down.\\xa0

\\xa0Before you consider heading back to Egypt, stick with me, my friend. After our time together you\\u2019ll be better equipped to take back your life.

\\xa0Here\\u2019s what you can expect God to do in the next 12 months and beyond:

\\xa0Step #1: He will REVEAL

In the months following the relationship detox, God will begin to pull back the veil and you\\u2019ll start to see where you went wrong\\u2014things you tolerated, actions you mistook as love, immature or ungodly ways you dealt with matters, and unhealthy coping mechanisms. In other words, God's going to start showing you YOUR part.\\xa0

\\xa0Luke 12:2 tells us: \\u201cNothing is covered up that will not be revealed, or hidden that will not be known.\\u201d

\\xa0This doesn\\u2019t meant you\\u2019re to blame or the other person wasn\\u2019t a problem. But IF you will allow him, God will begin to do a transforming work within YOU, breaking you free of old mindsets and habits.\\xa0

\\xa0That work is going to begin with revealing your weaknesses and blind spots. He may highlight your codependency, your insatiable need for approval, or your fear of confrontation. While the other person doesn\\u2019t get a pass, it\\u2019s imperative that you recognize your part in this dynamic.\\xa0

\\xa0You were drawn to this person for a reason. Let God reveal that.

\\xa0They were drawn to you for a reason. Let God reveal that.

\\xa0You struggled with boundaries for a reason. Let God reveal that.\\xa0

\\xa0You have hurts you need to address before bringing them into another relationship. Let God reveal that.\\xa0

\\xa0Here\\u2019s the great news. In this phase, He will also begin to show you who He created you to be.\\xa0

No longer are you living under the shadow of someone else\\u2019s expectations and opinions. Now you can just be yourself. But you may not know who you are. Let God reveal that.\\xa0

\\xa0 (If you need a little jump start, be sure to grab a copy of your FREE What\\u2019s my temperament guide. Link)

\\xa0But it doesn\\u2019t end there. Once these areas of identity and triggers are revealed, God will move you into step 2

\\xa0Step #2: He will DEAL

In this next phase, God will help you to deal with your past pains and problems. He is faithful to walk with you through the process of dealing with the collateral damage of whatever He is revealing.

\\xa0Maybe your husband left you with fractured identity, or your parent infected you with a disease to please. Whatever it is, this is not the time to shift blame. It is time to allow our Lord to do His transforming work within you.

\\xa0Allow Him to teach you the things you need to learn.

\\xa0Allow Him to renew your mind to his truth.

\\xa0Allow Him to walk with you as you pull up the root of bitterness and break free from the demonic influence designed to keep you in bondage.\\xa0

\\xa0I love to meditate on Psalm 23:4; Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod a

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