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Behind the Mask: What 24 Narcissists Had to Say About You

Narcissists have a superficial and alluring charm that draws you in to their web. They say everything you want to hear, but over time the cracks in their mask start to show.

Maybe after years of inconsistent behavior that didn\\u2019t match their words, you\\u2019re left wondering if it\\u2019s ALL been a facade.

Well, you don\\u2019t have to wonder any longer. I set out to get to the bottom of what they really think, and what I found surprised me. They all said the same thing. I mean they all used the same exact words. That\\u2019s right. All 24 narcissists that I spoke to said the same exact thing about their victims. And today I want to share that with you in hopes of bringing you a little clarity to your confusion.

(I spoke to both male and female narcissists, so I am going to use he/she interchangeably. The statements are reflective of both genders.)

So buckle up. Here\\u2019s what the narcissist had to say about you.

\\xb7 What the F--- is wrong with her? Forgive my use of foul language here, but I wanted to bring you the exact picture of what they say. They don\\u2019t mince words, nor do they see their part in the problem. Even the ones that did still honestly believe that their bad behavior is justified, but yours is inexcusable.

\\xb7 He/she doesn't get me This is usually after you\\u2019ve discovered their bologna and don\\u2019t worship them anymore.

\\xb7 He/she wasn't supportive. Again, when you're not supporting them in whatever cockamamie endeavor they dream up, you're the bad guy. They truly believe that you should support (aka agree with) them in every way.

\\xb7 She\\u2019s just a b\\u2014\\u2014. He\\u2019s just a jerk/a\\u2014. Again, my apologies for the language but narcissists are children that resort to name-calling when things don\\u2019t go their way.

\\xb7 He/she clearly doesn't care to understand what I'm dealing with. Narcissists always have excuses for why they aren\\u2019t succeeding, why they didn\\u2019t get something finished, or why they didn\\u2019t keep their word. And if they actually have a legitimate issue--like a health issue--that issue will be used every single time you try to challenge their lies and behavior.

\\xb7 Whatever! he/she isn\\u2019t/wasn\\u2019t worth my time. Since the narcissist has no desire to work on a relationship, they will write you off faster than you can swat a mosquito in the summer. They love to talk trash about people who don\\u2019t play along with their inflated ego and will often use put-downs to garnish pity from others. They like to position themselves as the saint who put up with your abusive behavior. They can\\u2019t just walk away\\u2014they have to go down with a blaze of glorious victimhood.

\\xb7 What can I do to get him/her back? After all of the name-slinging and trash-talking, every single narcissist asked how they

could get their partner back, especially if they were rejected and discarded. They often pretend that they don\\u2019t care, but the rejection is killing them and their one purpose is to get you back to regain control in the relationship\\u2014that\\u2019s it. They don\\u2019t care to change. They don\\u2019t feel bad about how they behaved. They only care that it had a negative outcome on them. That\\u2019s why they want you back\\u2014to regain control of the narrative. YOU don\\u2019t get the final say. Not in their world.

\\xb7 Why do I always pick the crazy ones? This statement is meant to position themselves as the one who is always wronged.

\\xb7 After all I did for him/her, this is how he/she treats me? Narcissists truly believe that you owe them. In their mind, they are self-sacrificing and you\\u2019re the beneficiary who owes them.

\\xb7 He/she has trust issues. They\\u2019re just too sensitive. Narcissists can\\u2019t validate your feelings because it would force them to face their contribution to the problem. Instead it\\u2019s all directed on