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In this episode, we look at a three-step process to lessen attachment. The first step is to notice the craving mind and examine it. The craving mind focuses on its object of desire, exaggerates its good qualities, and fixates on it until it feels it can not be happy without it: it is at this stage that attachment has arisen. We might be attached to a new car, a person, being right, or an experience going the way we want it to. Our mind of attachment makes these things so desirable, imbuing them with attractiveness, and yet the attachment to them sets us up for disappointment, painful longing, or dissatisfaction. Attachment is like tasting honey on the raiser\u2019s edge; the first taste is sweet, but pain is soon to follow.

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A three-step practice to lesson attachment

1. Notice the craving mind
2. Loosen the fixation
3. Make offerings

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You can meditate on the breath to loosen a fixation. Once you\u2019ve noticed your mind glued to its object of attachment, this meditation frees and settles the mind because it focuses on a completely neutral object\u2014the breath.\xa0

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Offering a purified version of your object of attachment to all living beings is a profound way to lessen craving and create causes to be free of it completely, eventually. For example, you might be attached to buying a new home. Your mind is fixated on it; you feel you can\u2019t be happy unless you buy a new house, but financially it would be reckless at this time. You could settle your mind and think, \u201cmay all living beings have safe and comfortable shelter.\u201d Feel that your offering creates the cause for all beings to have shelter. Giving up your object of attachment now has a universal purpose. Or it might lift you up from the narrow mind of craving to a feeling of connection and love to all living beings. If you're attached to a person for whom its inappropriate, you could think \u201cmay all beings experience pure love.\u201d Make the offering a purified version of your attachment.\xa0

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The craving of a person who lives negligently\xa0

Spreads like a creeping vine.\xa0

Such a person leaps ever onward,\xa0

Like a monkey seeking fruit in the forest. (334)*

--Buddha, The Dhammapada

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References and Links

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Buddha.The Dhammapada. Translated by Gil Fronsdale. (Kindle). Shambala, Boston and London, 2011. (Link)

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