AEE 137: Be More Likeable with These Six English Phrases

Published: June 23, 2014, 1:25 p.m.

b'Taking IELTS?\\nGet our free IELTS video training now\\nWhat can you say in English to make people like you?\\nToday you\'re going learn a few phrases, questions, and vocabulary words that you can use in any conversation to make people enjoy your company more.\\n\\xa0\\nPhrases to make people like you:\\n\\n"How about you?":\\xa0This is better in the middle of a conversation. People want to talk about themselves and share their opinion on a topic so give them a chance to do it. This shows that you are interested in the person and that\'s why they\'ll find you interesting.\\n\\nUse the person\'s name:\\xa0This shows that you care enough to remember the person\'s name. Use their name to show that you care. Try to insert their name at the beginning or the end of a conversation. Don\'t be afraid to ask for their name again if you forget it.\\n\\nDo NOT use "sir" or "ma\'am" in the US:\\xa0This is too formal in the Northeastern United States or on the West Coast (Boston, NY, Portland, Washington State). It can also make you sound submissive or like you are putting yourself below the person.\\n\\n"You\'re welcome" instead of "no problem":\\xa0When you say "no problem" you are saying that what you just did for that person was easy and it didn\'t mean anything to you. "You\'re welcome" doesn\'t make a judgment about what you have done for the person. It\'s simple and polite.\\n\\n"What would you like me to do?":\\xa0This allows the person to be direct if they are trying to hint at something and it gives you a chance to help someone.\\n\\n\\xa0\\n\\xa0\\nHave you tried any of these phrases?\\nIf so, how did it go? Do you know another phrase that will make you more likeable?\\nLet us know in the comments section!\\n\\xa0\\n\\xa0\\nSource: Inc Magazine\\xa019 Words That Will Make People Like You More\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices'