Podcasts Health Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups
Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups

26 episodes

A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 34 years experience working with those surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.

Podcasts

BPD Relationship or Breakup Are You Codependent or Just Care Too Much?

Published: June 29, 2024, 3:09 a.m.
Duration: 49 minutes 20 seconds

Listed in: Health

Am I a Codependent in a Heartbreaking Cycle Of a Bpd Relationship or Breakup?

Published: June 28, 2024, 11:12 p.m.
Duration: 33 minutes 48 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Relationship Dynamics - Codependents Not Taking It Fighting Back

Published: June 24, 2024, 8:53 p.m.
Duration: 27 minutes 48 seconds

Listed in: Health

Empower Someone With BPD To End Unhealthy Life Choices Claims An Inauthentic Youtuber

Published: June 3, 2024, 4:15 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 11 minutes 47 seconds

Listed in: Health

Break The Betrayal Bond BPD or NPD Ex Adult Child & Codependency

Published: May 25, 2024, 4:50 a.m.
Duration: 39 minutes 15 seconds

Listed in: Health

Stop The Cycle of Bpd's Using You As An Atm and a Vending Machine

Published: May 18, 2024, 3:37 a.m.
Duration: 17 minutes 43 seconds

Listed in: Health

Losing Yourself Trying To Nurture and Aid a Borderline?

Published: May 6, 2024, 2:37 a.m.
Duration: 33 minutes 46 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Quiet Discouraged Subtype Specific Traits and Shocking Discards

Published: March 21, 2024, 11:36 p.m.
Duration: 54 minutes 5 seconds

Listed in: Health

Salacious BPD Women Are Not Dreams They are Relationship Nightmares

Published: March 19, 2024, 1:30 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 41 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Breakup Obsession & Codependent Excuses Waiting to Be Rescued by Who?

Published: March 10, 2024, 9:12 p.m.
Duration: 37 minutes 58 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderlines Cant Find Love Or Love You From Your Perspective

Published: March 10, 2024, 3:16 a.m.
Duration: 21 minutes 26 seconds

Listed in: Health

Petulant BPD Rage Uses You and The Why Insight of a Recovered Borderline

Published: March 3, 2024, 11:05 p.m.
Duration: 40 minutes 18 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline Splitting Cycles Mixed With Codependent Denial

Published: Feb. 12, 2024, 3:26 a.m.
Duration: 34 minutes 49 seconds

Listed in: Health

Recontacting Your BPD Ex Increases Your Suffering

Published: Feb. 11, 2024, 10:52 p.m.
Duration: 41 minutes 30 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderlines Don't Value You in Dating or Relationships

Published: Feb. 8, 2024, 6:04 a.m.
Duration: 29 minutes 53 seconds

Listed in: Health

Loving a Borderline Why You Will Never Know Who He or She Is or Was

Published: Feb. 4, 2024, 4:26 a.m.
Duration: 30 minutes 45 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Discard & Dangle Fantasy Facade At The End Like the Beginning

Published: Jan. 30, 2024, 4:51 a.m.
Duration: 27 minutes 14 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Breakup & Codependent Woundness Vulerability Becomes a Strengh In Healing

Published: Jan. 30, 2024, 4:33 a.m.
Duration: 44 minutes 38 seconds

Listed in: Health

Responding To Borderline Ex Only When Contacted or Hoovered is Not NO CONTACT

Published: Jan. 6, 2024, 5:43 a.m.
Duration: 14 minutes 35 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Deceptive Hoovers & BPD Ex Self Deceptive Reverse Hoovers

Published: Dec. 26, 2023, 3:26 a.m.
Duration: 15 minutes 38 seconds

Listed in: Health

Riding the Chaotic Rollercoaster of a Borderline? Core Secret Understanding You Need To Know

Published: Dec. 11, 2023, 8:03 p.m.
Duration: 36 minutes 6 seconds

Listed in: Health

Definition and 5 Signs of a Trauma Bond with a Borderline or Narcissist

Published: Nov. 11, 2023, 4:51 a.m.
Duration: 48 minutes 18 seconds

Listed in: Health

The Borderline Set Up Hoover

Published: Nov. 4, 2023, 1:23 a.m.
Duration: 19 minutes 39 seconds

Listed in: Health

LIMERENCE vs LOVE Obsessing on An Unavailable BPD Ex - Stop Relationship Recycling Go No Contact

Published: Oct. 30, 2023, 3:13 a.m.
Duration: 45 minutes 21 seconds

Listed in: Health

Why Don't Borderlines Just Get It?

Published: Oct. 9, 2023, 5:22 a.m.
Duration: 27 minutes 45 seconds

Listed in: Health

To Survive a BPD Breakup First Stop Relationship Recycling

Published: Sept. 25, 2023, 4:24 a.m.
Duration: 33 minutes 45 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Silent Treatment vs BPD Ghosting

Published: Sept. 21, 2023, 2:18 a.m.
Duration: 13 minutes 28 seconds

Listed in: Health

Trauma Bonding With a Borderline - What Codependnets Need To Know

Published: Sept. 17, 2023, 3:49 a.m.
Duration: 25 minutes 53 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Idealization to Devaluation To Rumination & Ruination - Get Off The BPD Rollercoaster

Published: Sept. 15, 2023, 12:20 a.m.
Duration: 17 minutes 14 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline and Codependent Dance of Impossible Connection

Published: Sept. 12, 2023, 12:25 a.m.
Duration: 14 minutes 58 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderlines Want What (Who) They Want - Get It (You) Then Don't Want It (You) Anymore & Why This Is

Published: Sept. 9, 2023, 5:42 p.m.
Duration: 18 minutes 33 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Idealization Devaluation Cycles "Get-Away Closer" BPD Push/Pull

Published: Sept. 1, 2023, 10:23 p.m.
Duration: 15 minutes 35 seconds

Listed in: Health

Can You Reach Out to a BPD Ex To Help Them In Repeated Failed Attempts To Have the Impossible Conversation?

Published: Aug. 27, 2023, 10:45 p.m.
Duration: 50 minutes 3 seconds

Listed in: Health

7 Signs Your Loved One Has Borderline Personality That You Experience

Published: Aug. 23, 2023, 2:29 a.m.
Duration: 15 minutes 39 seconds

Listed in: Health

5 Reasons Why Borderlines Lie - Is There Biology To BPD Lying

Published: Aug. 22, 2023, 6:54 p.m.
Duration: 19 minutes 41 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderlines are Drowning Emotionally Want Your Ex Back You May Drown In the Relation-SHIP

Published: Aug. 19, 2023, 9:31 p.m.
Duration: 21 minutes 37 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline Inner Focus Leaves You Out - 5 Reasons Why

Published: Aug. 8, 2023, 6:41 p.m.
Duration: 15 minutes 37 seconds

Listed in: Health

What Do Borderlines Need? 9 Red Flags You Can't Help Them & Why You Will Be Punished For Caring

Published: Aug. 7, 2023, 2:30 a.m.
Duration: 41 minutes 26 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD On/Off Relationship Recycling Limbo and Still Stuck Wanting Your BPD Ex Back? Why?

Published: Aug. 6, 2023, 12:42 a.m.
Duration: 18 minutes 54 seconds

Listed in: Health

Loving a Bordeline is a One Way Relationship

Published: Aug. 5, 2023, 11:42 p.m.
Duration: 19 minutes 5 seconds

Listed in: Health

Do Borderlines Lack of Empathy?

Published: July 31, 2023, 12:37 a.m.
Duration: 25 minutes 36 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline Provocation Manipulates You What Codependents Need To Know To Get Into Recovery Action to Break Free

Published: July 15, 2023, 10:19 p.m.
Duration: 48 minutes 23 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline Ghost You? Want BPD Ex Back? Is Your BPD Ex Thinking About You?

Published: July 1, 2023, 4:32 a.m.
Duration: 25 minutes 53 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Betrayal Can't Be Friends & Why No Contact Needs To Be For Life

Published: June 25, 2023, 3:47 a.m.
Duration: 27 minutes 40 seconds

Listed in: Health

Codependency Painful Emotional Dangers Rooted In Family Systems 16 Patterms Re Enacted In BPD NPD Adult Relationships

Published: June 18, 2023, 9:34 p.m.
Duration: 51 minutes 38 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Splitting Destroys Relationships - 14 Signs of How and Why You Need To Stop Relationship Recycling

Published: June 3, 2023, 7:52 p.m.
Duration: 1 hour 14 minutes 7 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Relationship Recycling Getting Your Ex Back is Recycling The Trauma Bond

Published: May 10, 2023, 10:19 a.m.
Duration: 22 minutes 54 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Breakup No Closure Wanting The "Closure Conversation" With You Ex

Published: April 30, 2023, 5:02 a.m.
Duration: 44 minutes

Listed in: Health

Borderlines Use You - They Do Not Love or Attach to You

Published: April 28, 2023, 11:15 p.m.
Duration: 19 minutes 38 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Breakup and The Mother Wound - 7 Impacting Consequences For Men with Codependency

Published: April 16, 2023, 1:44 a.m.
Duration: 45 minutes 36 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline Tribalism & BPD Right Fighting - They Can't Handle The Truth

Published: April 10, 2023, 12:56 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 26 minutes 57 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Breakup Getting Your Ex Back - Dream Come True or Nightmare Revisited

Published: March 26, 2023, 3:24 a.m.
Duration: 37 minutes 16 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Risky Sexual Behavior and Impulsivity

Published: March 19, 2023, 11:30 p.m.
Duration: 34 minutes 57 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderlines Always Know What They Are Doing? Codependent Logical Fallacies and Biases.

Published: March 6, 2023, 8:03 p.m.
Duration: 36 minutes 45 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline Red Herring Fallacy

Published: March 4, 2023, 11:06 p.m.
Duration: 35 minutes 51 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Relationship Impossibility in Polyamory or Monogamy

Published: Feb. 26, 2023, 1:41 a.m.
Duration: 38 minutes 40 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Ex Diagnosed or Not Codependent Focus Wanting Your Ex Back

Published: Feb. 25, 2023, 5:29 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 9 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Girlfriend Want Space - Slow Split to Devaluation and Ghosting Now what

Published: Feb. 10, 2023, 7:54 p.m.
Duration: 33 minutes 41 seconds

Listed in: Health

Understanding BPD to A Point Facilitates Codependent Recovery & Building a Bridg

Published: Feb. 4, 2023, 8:49 p.m.
Duration: 33 minutes 23 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderlines Are Not Capable of Loving You

Published: Feb. 4, 2023, 12:01 a.m.
Duration: 24 minutes 50 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD or BPD/NPD or BPD/Psychopath - You Are Never Going To Change A Borderline - End The Breakup Cycles

Published: Feb. 2, 2023, 1:30 p.m.
Duration: 30 minutes 45 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderlines or Narcissists Do Not Cause Situational Narcissism in Codependents

Published: Jan. 27, 2023, 6:09 p.m.
Duration: 27 minutes 9 seconds

Listed in: Health

Malignant Borderline as if Psychopathic vs BPD | 8 Traits & 4 C's of Differentiation

Published: Jan. 17, 2023, 2:55 a.m.
Duration: 22 minutes 40 seconds

Listed in: Health

Malignant Borderline "10 Signs" of BPD/ASPD Supposed Co-Morbidity Conflated with BPD

Published: Jan. 17, 2023, 1:50 a.m.
Duration: 2 hours 4 minutes 55 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Breakup What is The BPD FINAL DISCARD? Go From Limbo To End Of Breakup Cycles

Published: Dec. 23, 2022, 9:05 p.m.
Duration: 47 minutes 31 seconds

Listed in: Health

Extrem Focus on BPD Ex Increases Distress Drives More Focus On Ex - Dangerous and Painful

Published: Dec. 18, 2022, 5:03 p.m.
Duration: 24 minutes 16 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Hoovers Are About The Borderline Not You

Published: Dec. 18, 2022, 8:56 a.m.
Duration: 22 minutes 47 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline Emotional and Communication Deficits 7 Signs You Are Relating to a Borderline

Published: Dec. 18, 2022, 6:21 a.m.
Duration: 18 minutes 46 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline and Codependent Denial - The BPD "We" & The Codependent "They"

Published: Dec. 18, 2022, 4:29 a.m.
Duration: 23 minutes 11 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Ghost Discard & Hoovers Are Not About You

Published: Dec. 15, 2022, 8:21 a.m.
Duration: 28 minutes 3 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD or NPD Relationship Breakups The First Step to Surviving & Recovery

Published: Dec. 10, 2022, 7:30 a.m.
Duration: 45 minutes 56 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Relationships Are No Win

Published: Dec. 7, 2022, 8:44 a.m.
Duration: 39 minutes 3 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Triggers Not Your Responsibility Do Borderlines Make You Feel How You Feel?

Published: Dec. 7, 2022, 6:41 a.m.
Duration: 16 minutes 54 seconds

Listed in: Health

How To Get Your BPD Ex Back Choices Actions & Consequences

Published: Nov. 5, 2022, 8:38 p.m.
Duration: 34 minutes 59 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Breakup - Want Your Ex Back? Codependents Need For Radical Acceptance

Published: Nov. 5, 2022, 8:24 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 16 minutes 56 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline Revolving Door Situationship - Can It Work?

Published: Nov. 5, 2022, 7:58 a.m.
Duration: 22 minutes 18 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Ex Remember The Good Times?

Published: Oct. 18, 2022, 12:21 a.m.
Duration: 28 minutes 51 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline Inability To Communicate Part 2 Tennis Anyone?

Published: Sept. 12, 2022, 10:12 a.m.
Duration: 23 minutes 6 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline Core Communication Deficits No Ability to Repair Or Give Closure to Any BPD Episode

Published: Sept. 12, 2022, 8:35 a.m.
Duration: 21 minutes 34 seconds

Listed in: Health

Reverse Hoovers of The Borderline After Being Ghosted

Published: Sept. 11, 2022, 7:25 a.m.
Duration: 17 minutes 52 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Splitting More Devaluation Less Idealization In BPD Relationships

Published: Sept. 11, 2022, 4:50 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 9 minutes 28 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline Idealization Phase Its Not Logical or Targeted

Published: Sept. 10, 2022, 2:34 a.m.
Duration: 32 minutes 38 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Relationship Cycle - 7 Stages Of Rinse and Repeat Impossibility

Published: Sept. 4, 2022, 10:10 p.m.
Duration: 35 minutes 32 seconds

Listed in: Health

Inside BPD Idealization Does or Did the Borderline Love You?

Published: Sept. 1, 2022, 2:55 a.m.
Duration: 29 minutes 19 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderlines and Narcissists - Codependents Focus On Cluster B's Is Not The Way of Healing

Published: Aug. 31, 2022, 1:58 a.m.
Duration: 27 minutes 21 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Projection and Projective Identification Not Empathy

Published: Aug. 25, 2022, 1:39 a.m.
Duration: 17 minutes 10 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline "Love" Why It Just Ends

Published: Aug. 24, 2022, 11:51 p.m.
Duration: 21 minutes 12 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderlines Why If They Go to Treatment Often Don't Stay In Treatment

Published: Aug. 21, 2022, 7:05 p.m.
Duration: 29 minutes 51 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Breakup Extreme Pain Of No Contact

Published: Aug. 19, 2022, 2:13 a.m.
Duration: 23 minutes 2 seconds

Listed in: Health

Narcissistic Abuse Codependency is Not The Flip Side of Pathological Narcissism in NPD

Published: Aug. 13, 2022, 7:42 a.m.
Duration: 26 minutes 24 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD NPD Relationships - What is Limerence? 12 Signs & 5 Traits - Codependency & Limerence

Published: Aug. 6, 2022, 2:50 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 25 minutes 48 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Breakup Will BPD Ex Come Back? The Uncertainty and Fear of No Contact

Published: July 24, 2022, 12:49 a.m.
Duration: 30 minutes 37 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Breakup Men The "Man Up Be Tough" Has Nothing To Do With Breakup and Will Not Win Back BPD Ex

Published: July 2, 2022, 7:55 a.m.
Duration: 46 minutes 3 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline Projective Identification and Codependent Introjection Trauma Bond Dynamics

Published: May 8, 2022, 1:28 a.m.
Duration: 33 minutes 57 seconds

Listed in: Health

Loving a Borderline Can You Keep Or Make a Borderline Happy

Published: May 8, 2022, 12:58 a.m.
Duration: 23 minutes 11 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Breakup & Codependent Rumination

Published: March 16, 2022, 12:59 a.m.
Duration: 23 minutes 35 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline Abuse of Partners

Published: Feb. 3, 2022, 11:07 p.m.
Duration: 30 minutes 59 seconds

Listed in: Health

Pt 3 of 3 Loving a Borderline Is Impossible

Published: Feb. 3, 2022, 7:40 p.m.
Duration: 38 minutes 57 seconds

Listed in: Health

Pt 2 of 3 Loving a Borderline is Impossible with Live Q&A

Published: Jan. 14, 2022, 5:12 p.m.
Duration: 1 hour 37 minutes 4 seconds

Listed in: Health

PT 1 of 3 Loving a Borderline is Impossible with Live Q & A

Published: Jan. 14, 2022, 4:29 p.m.
Duration: 1 hour 40 minutes 17 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD and Secondary Psychopathy In Severe BPD Not All With BPD

Published: Nov. 28, 2021, 5:49 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 19 minutes 39 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Parents Partners Family Members Randi Kreger Interview on BPD and BPD NPD Co Morbidity and More

Published: Sept. 21, 2021, 9 p.m.
Duration: 1 hour 50 minutes 25 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD and Codependent Trauma Bonds Not Rooted in Addiction Rooted in Trauma

Published: July 7, 2021, 12:06 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 24 minutes 41 seconds

Listed in: Health

What Is Codependency And Why Do you Need To Know

Published: July 6, 2021, 2:52 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 1 minute 6 seconds

Listed in: Health

Part 2 My BPD NPD Co-Morbid Alcoholic Ex A.J. Mahari's Experience

Published: July 6, 2021, 2:08 a.m.
Duration: 41 minutes 20 seconds

Listed in: Health

A.J. Mahari on Her BPD NPD Co-Morbid Ex How The Relationship Began

Published: July 5, 2021, 10:56 p.m.
Duration: 40 minutes 16 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Relationships BPD Ex Carlos On His Experience Dating and Breaking Up

Published: June 16, 2021, 7:33 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 12 minutes 48 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Ex A Man Beaten Abused Discarded and in Legal Appeal To See His Son

Published: June 15, 2021, 6:42 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 47 minutes 40 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Male Instant Trauma Bond Dynamics With Codependent Woman Mary's Story

Published: June 8, 2021, 4:59 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 3 minutes 49 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Relationships and Breakups Man with 6 BPD Breakups Interviewed

Published: June 5, 2021, 4:33 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 13 minutes 22 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD & Mental Health Challenges Mother's Day Movie Writer Director Travis Carlson Interview

Published: April 19, 2021, 1:08 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 14 minutes 19 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Mother Adult Child Codependent Independent Movie Must See Interview Coming and More on The Movie

Published: April 15, 2021, 12:06 a.m.
Duration: 44 minutes 6 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Relationship Dynamics with Codependents Projection and Introjection

Published: April 9, 2021, 5:19 a.m.
Duration: 52 minutes 52 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline Communication Impossibility 12

Published: March 30, 2021, 9:07 p.m.
Duration: 22 minutes 19 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline Communication Impossibility

Published: March 30, 2021, 9:07 p.m.
Duration: 22 minutes 19 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Breakup Codependency Trauma Bond Not Caused or Resolved By Focusing on Attachment Styles

Published: March 20, 2021, 4:56 a.m.
Duration: 52 minutes 47 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Relationship Breakups and Recycling 5 Reasons

Published: March 7, 2021, 10:50 p.m.
Duration: 38 minutes 47 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Breakup Codependent Protective Patterns Inhibit Recovery

Published: March 7, 2021, 2:15 a.m.
Duration: 1 hour 59 minutes 1 second

Listed in: Health

Borderlines Playing the Victim Are Borderlines Professional Victims

Published: March 7, 2021, 12:23 a.m.
Duration: 51 minutes 37 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD and Codependency defined and explained

Published: Feb. 14, 2021, 6:10 a.m.
Duration: 55 minutes 10 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline Magical Thinking Explained

Published: Feb. 6, 2021, 8:52 p.m.
Duration: 25 minutes 59 seconds

Listed in: Health

Borderline Behavior and Abuse No Shared Objective Reality

Published: Jan. 31, 2021, 11 p.m.
Duration: 38 minutes 44 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Ex's Codependents Needing Next Relationship after BPD Without Recovery Not Healthy

Published: Dec. 26, 2020, 2:29 a.m.
Duration: 14 minutes 19 seconds

Listed in: Health

3 Stages of the BPD Relationship

Published: Dec. 25, 2020, 11:19 p.m.
Duration: 33 minutes 53 seconds

Listed in: Health

BPD Relationships Begin to End From the Start

Published: Dec. 25, 2020, 9:38 p.m.
Duration: 17 minutes 9 seconds

Listed in: Health

In Search of Intimacy with A Borderline

Published: Nov. 4, 2020, 6:54 a.m.
Duration: 22 minutes 31 seconds

Listed in: Health