Please your parents with a merciful gaze to earn the reward of Hajj mabroor (no reward except paradise) and freeing a slave. Be careful in disobeying and disrespecting parents in the slightest. Caution in raising your tone a little. Abu Umama (ra) served his mother instead of jihad with Rasulullah ﷺ. Abu Qudamah (rah), a veteran and pious soul is amazed by the unknown women's determination to serve in the path of Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى, thus giving everything she has including her braids.