This is a teaching about how as believers we need to live a lifestyle of doing his will not our own. Many of the wrong decisions we have made in our lives that have caused us great pain and disappointment were because we did our own thing, we did what we wanted and not what YHWH commanded or wanted. We elevated ourselves as an idol and lived to please self even as believers in Yahshua. Cursed is everyone who lives to please self but blessed is everyone who lives to please YHWH. We need to stop obeying the lusts and passions of our flesh, we need to crucify them. We need to live YHWH'S will not my will!