b"Tobie Gonzalez joins Lisa to discuss why past trauma doesn\\u2019t define your future, the importance of taking care of the next generation, and how to not live in the shadow of your partner. \\n[Original air date: 09/19/28]\\n\\nSHOW NOTES: \\nTobie\\u2019s story [2:00] \\nWhy we perceive the same things differently [3:37] \\nPast trauma shapes who you are [[4:41] \\nWays to overcome your fears [6:45] \\nYou can control your brain [8:26] \\nEffective parenting strategies [9:00] \\nImpacting the lives of thousands of children [10:32] \\nHaving difficult conversations with your kids [13:10] \\nTeaching your kids the right values [14:23] \\nFalling in love with Tony Gonzalez [16:27] \\nFinding your place in a relationship [18:00] \\nWhy it's important to speak your mind [19:44] \\nSurprise people with your identity [21:22] \\nWhy being resilient makes you stronger [22:53] \\nWhat is your definition of love?\\xa0[24:10] \\nFreeing yourself from toxic relationships [25:03] \\nFinding the right partner for yourself [28:14] \\nWhy it\\u2019s important to be independently codependent [30:00] \\nEvery relationship is uniquely beautiful [32: 42] \\nHaving an alter ego can be beneficial [33:30] \\nFinding joy in every moment [36:51] \\n\\nDISCUSSED IN THIS EPISODE The 5 Second Rule by Mel Robbins: https://amzn.to/2pfJChP \\nShadow Buddies: https://bit.ly/2MHNVvR \\nBaby2Baby: https://bit.ly/1y6BQ9s\\xa0\\n\\nFOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh \\n\\nFOLLOW TOBIE GONZALEZ: \\nINSTAGRAM: https://bit.ly/2NiDR1A\\n\\nIf you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission.\\nSign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa now to grow your business\\u2013no matter what stage you\\u2019re in.\\nSign up at https://lastbottlewines.com, use code LISA to save 10%, and find out why Last Bottle is the most fun way to discover and buy amazing wine.\\xa0\\nThis episode is sponsored by Betterhelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/women and get on your way to being your best self!\\nGet a free 30-day Alo Moves subscription by going to https://alomoves.com and use code WOI30.\\nGo to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today!\\nTry AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa.\\n\\n***CALLING ALL BADASSES!***\\nIf you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!\\xa0\\n*New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!*\\n\\nDon't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary!\\n\\n*****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP*****\\n\\nSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices"