On Today's Episode: Jealousy. How does it enter our minds, what feeds it, and is it perhaps just a reflection of our own insecurities? On this episode of Relationship Theory, Tom and Lisa Bilyeu sit down to discuss the harsh reality of confronting your own jealousy in a relationship and why it may actually be a matter of your own insecurities and not their behavior. They discuss the time when Tom and Lisa went together to Tom\u2019s ex-girlfriend\u2019s birthday party, how they dealt with it, where jealousy originates from, what feeds it, how it is an ugly look, and what to be aware of before jealousy spirals out of control.\n\nSHOW NOTES:\nHonesty | Lisa shares her experience when Tom took her to his ex-girlfriend\u2019s birthday party. [0:21]\nEstablishing Feelings | Tom shares his side of taking Lisa to his ex-girlfriend\u2019s birthday party. [3:11]\nJealousy | Tom and Lisa discuss how buried insecurities feed jealousy. [4:36]\nChoose Confidence | Lisa shares why insecurities are a turn off. [8:38]\nHarsh Reality | Tom and Lisa discusses why it\u2019s not sexy to wallow in your insecurities. [11:23]\n\nFOLLOW TOM:\nInstagram: http://bit.ly/2s9lU90\nYouTube: http://bit.ly/2KWanAC\nPodcast: https://spoti.fi/2xEloFL\n\nFOLLOW LISA:\nInstagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh\nYouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH\nPodcast: https://spoti.fi/2IEajGW0\n\nAre You Ready for EXTRA Impact?\nCalling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!\xa0\nWomen of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits:\n\nNew episodes delivered ad-free\n\nExclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!\xa0\n\nSubscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly.\n\nLooking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.\xa0\n\nWant to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.\xa0\n\n\nCurious about your health? We\u2019ve got you covered in Health Hub.\xa0\n\n\nAnd of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist\xa0\n\nDon't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary!\nSubscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP\nSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices