Ladies, we are the boss at creating a story about a person before we even have the first date. This leads us to drama, disappointments and feeling totally blindsided often for situations we could\u2019ve avoided had we done this one thing.\nMatthew Hussey is masterful in how he delivered massive truth bombs about men and dating to help women better manage expectations and avoid heartbreak. His YouTube channel is clearly a fan favorite with close to 3 million subscribers and almost half a BILLION views on his content.\nThis bite sized nugget is packed with all the truth some of us really needed to hear today. Matthew lists the 4 Stages of Importance in starting a potential relationship, and highlights our special skill for creating stories when we\u2019re dating and the trouble that really causes.\nLet\u2019s stop creating stories and jumping to conclusions and start doing this instead.\n\n\u201cIf the reaction is hysterical, it\u2019s historical\u201d -Unknown\n\nFollow Matthew Hussey:\nWebsite: https://www.howtogettheguy.com/\nYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam\nInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/\nFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/\n\nSponsors:\n\ufeffWomen of Impact Podcast is sponsored by Growthday Network: https://growthday.com/podcasts\nTo get 15% off your next unique gift, go to\xa0https://bit.ly/UncommonGoodsWOI.\xa0\nLinkedIn Jobs helps you find the qualified candidates you want to talk to, faster. Post your job for free at https://bit.ly/LinkedinWOI.\nGo to https://bit.ly/QuinceWOI for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.\n\nAre You Ready for EXTRA Impact?\nCalling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!\xa0\nWomen of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits:\n\nNew episodes delivered ad-free\n\nExclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!\xa0\n\nSubscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly.\n\nLooking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.\xa0\n\nWant to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.\xa0\n\n\nCurious about your health? We\u2019ve got you covered in Health Hub.\xa0\n\n\nAnd of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist\xa0\n\nDon't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary!\nSubscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP\nSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices