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It seems like everywhere you look, society is constantly reminding us that successful, powerful women are failing at dating. In a survey that was listed this year on mantelligence.com states 64% of women prefer to find a husband who earns more money! So, are successful women raising the bar too high, expecting too much and are men feeling the pressure of having to step up their game and their status way higher than before? Being strong, independent and successful doesn\u2019t necessarily come with an ego or attitude for women. So what is the best way for you to approach dating when you have your shit together and don\u2019t want to be single?\nTom joins Lisa in this discussion and explores why at the root of this situation is a much needed conversation and a good working insecurity filter. It is important for women to understand that while there may be men that are intimidated by your success, there are also men that are confused by the mix of messages they are receiving from women. While one woman expects a man to pay for dinner another is easily offended. Have conversations while navigating the dating scene and meet people with compassion for where they are.\nSurvey mentioned: https://www.mantelligence.com/dating-statistics/\n\nSHOW NOTES:\nFacing Reality | Women being successful shrinks the dating pool, men want to lead [0:26]\nIs It Insecurity? | Being intimidated is not insecurity, it can be what you want to be better at [3:55]\n50/50 | Making a safe assumption half of men are insecure the other half aren\u2019t into it [12:40]\nFilter Insecurity | Why it\u2019s not worth dating someone insecure and intimidated by you [14:58]\nAttraction | Being attracted to what matters and enjoying what you\u2019re better at matters [21:17]\nConfusion Dating | Awareness that some women catch offence to a guy paying or not [24:36]\nFeel Good | Understand both of you have something you are good at than the other [29:46]\n\nCheck out our sponsors:\nAthletic Greens: Go to https://athleticgreens.com/lisa and receive a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 free travel packs with your first purchase!\nElfster: Get started by going to elfster.com or download the Elfster app.\nBest Fiends: Download Best Fiends FREE on the Apple App Store or Google Play.\n\nAre You Ready for EXTRA Impact?\nCalling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!\xa0\nWomen of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits:\n\nNew episodes delivered ad-free\n\nExclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!\xa0\n\nSubscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly.\n\nLooking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.\xa0\n\nWant to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.\xa0\n\n\nCurious about your health? We\u2019ve got you covered in Health Hub.\xa0\n\n\nAnd of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist\xa0\n\nDon't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary!\nSubscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP\nSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices