How We Found Sexual Satisfaction with Different Sex Drives | Relationship Theory

Published: July 29, 2022, 12:30 p.m.

b"Dealing with mismatched sex drives can be horrifying, frustrating and a host of other undesired emotions for both partners. How do you find compromise when one partner is in the mood every day, any time ready to go, and the other partner could check in once or twice a week and be perfectly satisfied? In this episode, Tom & Lisa break down advice, solutions, and examples from their own relationship for how to deal with mismatched libidos. They discuss everything from frequency, porn, and orgasms all the way to being absolutely transparent about just wanting to be desired.\\n\\nSHOW NOTES:\\nNeurochemical Sex Drive | Understanding frequency urges are related to hormones [1:17]\\nSolution | Dealing with high sex drive and what it means to accommodate a partner [2:53]\\nSexually Satisfied | Finding compromise to satisfy each other for mutual benefit [5:02]\\nOrgasmic Pull | Considering what your partner wants and the bond of orgasm [8:03]\\nForeplay | Getting her in the mood begins outside of the bedroom [10:58]\\nPorn | How viewing porn and received with resistance from some parters as bad [13:22]\\nOkay To Ask | How Tom & Lisa have agreed it\\u2019s okay to ask and it\\u2019s okay to say no [16:29]\\nOpen Dialogue | When there is a reason for concern having open communication [19:00]\\nDesirable | Real talk with Tom & Lisa about changing sex drives and being desirable [21:06]\\nMen Vs. Women | Tom on the relation between feeling connected, sex, and erection [25:43]\\nChecking In | Lisa\\u2019s advice for regular check-ins with each other about sex and more [27:35]\\n\\nAre You Ready for EXTRA Impact?\\nCalling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!\\xa0\\nWomen of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits:\\n\\nNew episodes delivered ad-free\\n\\nExclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!\\xa0\\n\\nSubscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly.\\n\\nLooking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.\\xa0\\n\\nWant to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.\\xa0\\n\\n\\nCurious about your health? We\\u2019ve got you covered in Health Hub.\\xa0\\n\\n\\nAnd of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist\\xa0\\n\\nDon't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary!\\nSubscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP\\nSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices"