How to Know Whether it's Time to Move In or Move On | Relationship Theory

Published: Sept. 23, 2022, 12:30 p.m.

Moving in together can be one of the biggest steps you take in your relationship. When do you know it\u2019s time to make the move, why might you or your partner have hesitations, and what should you do if your partner keeps making excuses to not do it? On this episode of Relationship Theory, Tom and Lisa Bilyeu sit down to discuss these matters and more as they explore what you should do if moving in with your loved one is proving to be more difficult to make happen than first anticipated. They discuss what to do when they\u2019re not ready for the move, why you should be logical and honest, why you should know whether it\u2019s worth it or not to even be in the relationship, how to approach the move like a written contract, and why you need to be absolutely clear on what your needs are with your partner.\n\nSHOW NOTES:\nMoving In | Lisa and Tom discuss what to do if your partner isn\u2019t ready to move in. [0:16]\nLogical | Tom and Lisa share their story of moving in together. [2:32]\nHonesty | Lisa and Tom discuss why you have to articulate the \u2018why\u2019 behind your decision. [3:33]\nWorth It | Tom shares the time when he weighed the sacrifices of being with Lisa. [6:04]\nContract | Lisa and Tom discuss how living together should be treated like a contract. [8:17]\nPTSD | Lisa and Tom discuss why you need to be open about your past living situations. [10:53]\nNo Bullsh*t | Tom and Lisa discuss why you should be clear on what your pain point is [11:57]\n\nFOLLOW TOM:\nInstagram: http://bit.ly/2s9lU90\nYouTube: http://bit.ly/2KWanAC\nPodcast: https://spoti.fi/2xEloFL\n\nFOLLOW LISA:\nInstagram: https://bit.ly/2TIsoKh\nYouTube: https://bit.ly/2IAbTcH\n\nAre You Ready for EXTRA Impact?\nCalling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!\xa0\nWomen of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits:\n\nNew episodes delivered ad-free\n\nExclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!\xa0\n\nSubscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly.\n\nLooking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.\xa0\n\nWant to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.\xa0\n\n\nCurious about your health? We\u2019ve got you covered in Health Hub.\xa0\n\n\nAnd of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist\xa0\n\nDon't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary!\nSubscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP\nSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices