Relationships can be so beautiful and amazing. Two people from totally different lives come together and fall under a spell with each other, and life never felt better.\nAs you get deeper into the relationship, you learn more about each other and now have to find ways to communicate and understand each other\u2019s values, habits and quirky ways. When love is not enough to sustain a massive collision of values, how do you respond? Is walking away the best option because you don\u2019t agree or see eye to eye?\nIn this episode, Tom and Lisa take you into the deep end of what it means to \u201csteel man\u201d each other and how to find compromise when there seems to be no room for compromise.. Not surprisingly, at the heart of their advice and wisdom is strong communication with one another. This is what a strong relationship and partnership looks like.\n\nSHOW NOTES:\nPerception Matters | Understanding how radically different perceptions can be [1:52]\nCollision of Values | Find out if you\u2019re on the same page and what you think the other should be doing [7:17]\nCommunication | Lisa shares how it always comes back to detailed communication [9:56]\nValue System | Know your personal value system and how it feeds into your relationship [13:06]\nSteel Man | Understanding your partners position, see and understand at their soul level [16:11]\nCompromise | Find the tradeoff after sharing each other\u2019s perspectives for path forward [18:51]\nJudged Beliefs | Lisa explains why not to judge a person\u2019s belief as right or wrong [22:19]\nMalleable Beliefs | Tom explains how beliefs can be changed when held to your values [22:58]\nNo Judgement | Lisa on how to effectively approach conflict and express yourself [24:03]\n\nDownload Now: The Most Important Questions You MUST Ask Your Partner here: https://bit.ly/3dWyB2d\nFREE 4-Part Confidence Workshop: https://bit.ly/3fZcbO5\n\nFollow Lisa Bilyeu:\nWebsite: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/\nInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/\nFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu\nTwitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu\n\nFollow Tom Bilyeu:\nWebsite: https://impacttheory.com/\nTwitter: https://twitter.com/TomBilyeu\nFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/tombilyeu\nInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/\n\nAre You Ready for EXTRA Impact?\nCalling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!\xa0\nWomen of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits:\n\nNew episodes delivered ad-free\n\nExclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!\xa0\n\nSubscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly.\n\nLooking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.\xa0\n\nWant to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.\xa0\n\n\nCurious about your health? We\u2019ve got you covered in Health Hub.\xa0\n\n\nAnd of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist\xa0\n\nDon't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary!\nSubscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP\nSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices