How Good Sex Will Help Your Relationship and Your Mental Health | Relationship Theory

Published: Oct. 28, 2022, 11 a.m.

b"More than half of all teenagers are totally uncomfortable discussing the same thing that nearly a third of adults are uncomfortable discussing. Sex! The question that Tom and Lisa tackle today is if waiting to have sex before marriage is the right thing. Yes, there are religious and cultural beliefs that will provide the answer and wisdom you need should you subscribe to those beliefs, but in this episode Tom and Lisa take a practical perspective about sex before marriage, living together first, and discovering compatibility and a common baseline in one of the most important aspects of your relationship. Their advice for a long-term healthy and happy relationship acknowledges the importance of feeling safe physically and emotionally, but more importantly being open to communicate and discuss sex together.\\n\\nSHOW NOTES:\\nSex Before Marriage | Tom why waiting for marriage to have sex is madness [0:35]\\nLiving Together | Tom explains why living together 1st is a best practice for longevity [1:25]\\nNo Fireworks | Lisa on the disappoint of first sexual experience and missing the fireworks [3:41]\\nSafe Exploration | Connecting and having safety to physically and emotionally explore [5:28]\\nCompatibility | Being on the same page, shared electricity, and know your sex flavor [8:05]\\nFrequency | Having open communication about frequency and feeling neglected [9:02]\\nOrgasmic | Tom on the neuro chemistry and power orgasm has for antidepressant [11:33]\\nFetishes | Important of openly discussing fetishes and having no judgement [13:07]\\nGrowing | Tom shares the value evolving in the sexual relationship and journey together [15:27]\\nReal Talk | Real time communication Tom\\u2019s intention vs. Lisa\\u2019s values on \\u201cexperiment\\u201d [16:06]\\n\\nFollow Tom Bilyeu:\\nWebsite: https://impacttheory.com/\\nTwitter: https://twitter.com/TomBilyeu\\nInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/\\n\\nFollow Lisa Bilyeu:\\nWebsite: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/\\nInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/\\nFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu\\nTwitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu\\n\\nAre You Ready for EXTRA Impact?\\nCalling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!\\xa0\\nWomen of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits:\\n\\nNew episodes delivered ad-free\\n\\nExclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!\\xa0\\n\\nSubscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly.\\n\\nLooking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.\\xa0\\n\\nWant to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.\\xa0\\n\\n\\nCurious about your health? We\\u2019ve got you covered in Health Hub.\\xa0\\n\\n\\nAnd of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist\\xa0\\n\\nDon't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary!\\nSubscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP\\nSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/\\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices"