grihasta vs grihamedhi / making the home an ashram / kirtan is the sacrifice for this age / simple & connected make for a good kirtan leader / kirtan brings people together / Tolstoy\u2019s definition of art / centuries of devotion invested in India\u2019s temples / how temples should bring out the best in us / the sacrifice of japa / Bhagavad-gita\u2019s austerity of speech truthful, pleasing, beneficial, not agitating - Bg. 17.15 / personal charisma vs spiritual substance / Krishna\u2019s pastimes make you fall in love