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We\u2019ve promised you for years that we would do an episode on apologies and never got to it until today. So we both want to say from the bottom of our hearts: we\u2019re sorry. We recognize we\u2019ve let so many of our listeners down, and we feel just awful if you were offended by the delay. We hope this episode will be just one small step towards regaining your trust.

Plus, of all the evo-psych articles in the world, this one might be the evo-psychiest: \u201cOral Sex as Infidelity Detection.\u201d

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Links:

• Pham, M. N., & Shackelford, T. K. (2013). Oral sex as infidelity-detection. Personality and Individual Differences, 54(6), 792-795. \u2014 From the abstract: "The infidelity-detection hypothesis for oral sex proposes that men perform oral sex to gather information about their partner\u2019s recent sexual history."
• Clearer Thinking | How to apologise
• Schumann, K., & Dragotta, A. (2020). Is moral redemption possible? The effectiveness of public apologies for sexual misconduct. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 90, 104002.
• Ohtsubo, Y., & Watanabe, E. (2009). Do sincere apologies need to be costly? Test of a costly signaling model of apology. Evolution and Human Behavior, 30(2), 114-123.
• I Was Wrong: The Meanings of Apologies by Nick Smith :: SSRN
• Dan Harmon Apologizes for Sexually Harassing Megan Ganz | Time