To change or not to change? That is the married-last-name question that actor, host and proud hyphenate Ashley Blaine Featherson-Jenkins (Dear White People, Trials to Triumphs) loves to answer. In this latest Ask Unladylike installment, Ashley and Cristen advise a listener in construction who's weary of being the "trophy worker" and an affianced unlady who worries whether taking her husband's last name is giving away part of her identity and/or caving to patriarchy.\nBut first, they bond over Bug Juice, aka the greatest reality show for tweens ever!!\nGot q's for Ask Unladylike? Send a voice memo to hello@unladylike.co.\xa0\n\nFollow Unladylike: IG | Twitter | TikTok\n\n\nJoin the Unladies' Room Patreon\n\nShop merch\n\n\nContact Multitude Productions for ad rates, etc.\n\n\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices