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\nWhen we listen with total presence, the person speaking to us often communicates differently, hearing themselves more deeply. We \u2018hear ourselves into being\u2019 more fully by listening this way too. Most people aren\u2019t used to being\xa0 heard in this way, and most of us aren\u2019t used to listening with this much attention. But the act of deep attentive listening can change us profoundly, and change the relationships between us in life giving ways. So how might we step in to this urgent task?
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\nHere's our source for this week:
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\nListening is suspending disbelief
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\nCommunication moves in two directions, even when one person speaks and another listens silently.\xa0
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\nWhen the listener is totally present, the speaker often communicates differently. Most people aren\u2019t used to being fully heard, and it can be jarring for them.\xa0
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\nSometimes we block the flow of information being offered and compromise true listening. Our critical mind may kick in, taking note of what we agree with and what we don\u2019t, or what we like and dislike. We may look for reasons to distrust the speaker or make them wrong.
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\nFormulating an opinion is not listening. Neither is preparing a response, or defending our position or attacking another\u2019s. To listen impatiently is to hear nothing at all.\xa0
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\nListening is suspending disbelief.\xa0
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\nWe are openly receiving. Paying attention with no preconceived ideas. The only goal is to fully and clearly understand what is being transmitted, remaining totally present with what\u2019s being expressed \u2013 and allowing it to be what it is.
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\nRick Rubin, from The Creative Act: A Way of Being
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